Tuesday, July 25, 2006

True Wife Confessions Sweet and Sour 29

Confession #281

When I ask you what time you are going to be home from where ever it is your going, tell me what time you are going to be home. Don't tell me 10pm because you think that is what I want to hear and then come strolling in at 2am blaming it on the guy driving not wanting to leave. If you aren't going to be home at 10 then CALL ME! You have a cell phone that you use ALL THE TIME...just once, use it to call me and tell me you will be late. Or better yet, quit being such an inconsiderate jerk and come home on time!

Confession #282

I can't begin to explain how frustrating it is to go somewhere with you and never leave together. Or the fact that every moment off of work is hanging with your buddies...playin' cards. You do have a family you know...remember me? our boys?Not to mention the fact that HELLO we are getting married in 3 (yes...3) weeks and you are blowing our money on poker! You know for once...just once...I would love to be the irresponsible one. I would love to party with our friends and not worry about the children, the dog we are sitting for while YOUR parents are out of town, making sure the house is clean the fridge is full of food, the laundry is done and whatever else it is that I do....just once would be nice!

Confession #283

I hope she is worth it, I hope you find out whatever it is that her first two husbands found wrong, and hope that you one day kick yourself for giving up our 10 year marriage and our 3 year old daughter for your piece of ass that was just so good. I hope your daughter never finds out or figures out that her daddy wanted a better piece of ass than to fix what was wrong with our family. I sincerely hope that the person that doesn't like kids, and doesn't ever think kids should be at a party does not become the person that helps you raise our daughter

Confession #284

I want to have an affair with a black man that has a huge penis. When i am having sex with you, i am dreaming about a big dick in me stretching me out and loving it.

Confession #285

The only reason that I say hateful things about Japanese women is
because I feel like I will never measure up to your ex-girlfriend who
was Japanese. You have told me countless times that I don't have to
compete, and somewhere, deep in my heart I believe it. I just need
to get it through to my head. I am not as racist as I sound - just a
bit envious.

Confession #286

I am so sick and tired of you always being sick, having pains in your chest, pains in your ass cheek, and just being all around sick. when I met you you seemed somewhat strong and healthy, now 17 years later I am the one caring the 50 lbs of dog food & salt for the water softener & removing the cap off your ketchup bottle. I really think that all the meds that your on is not helping you but is killing you slowly. but you won't listen to me when I tell you this and you say that your just following doctor's orders. BULL SHIT- GET A BACK BONE AND LEARN HOW TO CARE FOR YOUR HEALTH INSTEAD OF HAVING SOME QUACK PUSHING MEDS. ON YOU every time you go in for a check up.

Confession #287

I absolutely hate walking into the bathroom and stepping over your dirty clothes and towels just so I can use the toilet….Clean up after yourself you lazy scab…

Confession #288

Tonight was the last time that you speak to me like that in front of our children. When you speak to me like that you make yourself look like the immature, ignorant, and out of control asshole that you really are. The next time you choose to show your self like that I will take your flippant, "fuck off" advice to heart and leave you and your temper tantrums.

Confession #289

If you accuse me 1 more time of having a boyfriend then I WILL go cheat on you, there are 4 of them just waiting for the chance, then afterwards they'd love to come kick your sorry wife beating ass.

Oh and here's another for you, I'm filing for FULL CUSTODY with supervised visits and a DIVORCE tomorrow. I'm planning on leaving you high and dry fucker. This has been my plan for years, and my new found contact with old friends has pushed me into doing this.

Oh and I'm going out tomorrow night for my birthday and to celebrate me LEAVING you!!!

Confession #290

I hate that I'm the one who always buys you presents; you've never even written me a note before.

I hate that you always turn to me for money - never once have you bought me lunch, and you always ask me to pay you back for the things you help me buy. I must have spent hundreds and hundreds on you already, from the cumulative dollars here and there.

I hate that you tell me you felt jealous when I talked to this one guy a lot, but don't realise I felt the same way considering how 9/10 of your friends are females. I hate the way you have no inhibitions around them, never refraining from hugging them, getting all touchy-feely, then telling me that "they're just friends" when I object.

I hate the way you tell me I'm too sensitive, and that I have to learn to trust you. Trust is never given freely, and you haven't proven your worth.

I hate the way you compare me to your ex-girlfriends.

I hate the way you don't stand up for me, but stand up for other girls.

I hate the way you constantly tell me how pretty other girls are.

I hate the way you want to set up a band, a dance group, and all the other sort of shit with other girls, but never once want to include me in anything you do.

I hate the way you tell me that I don't communicate with you enough, and don't tell you the problems I have with you. And when I do, you somehow talk around it so it always ends up as my fault.

I hate the way you're always more than an hour late for our dates, leaving me to wait solitarily by the streets.

Most of all, I hate myself for not having the courage to tell you all this. I hate my heart for feeling so happy when I see you, that I'm never able to figure out whether I should leave you or not.


Anonymous said...

#290-Should you leave him? YES, yes you should. There are better men out there.

Anonymous said...

I did tell my husband well in a letter the confession I have on here.

Anonymous said...

#281...I am totally with you. Why can't they call to say that they are running late or tht they are on their way? My husband has no problem being on the phone with "his boy" for hours a day! Asshole!

#290...I feel ya mama!

Andrea said...

#282, I used to be you. I hated that we would go to a party and when I was ready to leave, I had to wait for him to be ready, or I had to leave alone and he'd get a ride. We showed up together, we should have left together. Not one time did he ever cut his partying short to leave when I was ready. I always had to wait until he was ready. And the cards! Yes, when I was worried about paying bills, I didn't like forking over $20 so he could play poker all night, leaving me, the non-poker player, to play on the floor with the kids.

Finally, I started telling him, "If you can come up with the money, you can play." Also, agreeing on a set time to leave helped. Something reasonable to both of us. We don't always leave at that set time, but now we always leave together, and not too far past the set time.

Anonymous said...

#290-If you are not married, LEAVE NOW! If you are married, I would suggest seeking intensive counseling for you as a couple asap.

Anonymous said...

#290-Leave him. Leave him now. The longer you stay the worse you'll feel about yourself and the harder it will be.

mean girls said...

I'm with you 281...Whay can't they call? you can't use the excuse that they couldn't find a phone...The fucking thing is in his pocket or in his ear 90% of the time.

I love this blog.

Anonymous said...

#286--*I know how YOU feel hon!*

my husband is also on more meds then you can believe.
He still complains of pain all the *&$%ing time. I am so sick of hearing "you could't have put up with this pain for as long as I have" I just want to tell him to shut the hell up

Anonymous said...

If you put a frog in boiling water it will jump out. If you put a frog in cold water and heat it up very slowly, it will stay until it’s boiled to death.

#290 JUMP! The water is getting hot.

Anonymous said...

#282 - You're an idiot if you marry an idiot when you knew about it in advance.

Anonymous said...

Ohh BOO HOO you woman are all the same, you dont appreaciate me, you dont spend time with me, lets talk, just shut the fuck up! I think you got it pretty good, spe nding your husbands money, all you have to do is talk to him, let him be and fuck him, IM A POOR LITTLE WOMAN I spend all my time with all my friends, and go to the mall and buy stuff. Well fuck you woman are too har to understand! freakin little babies cry about everything !

Anonymous said...

Hmmm, me thinks one of these confessions must've hit pretty close to home.

Anonymous said...

someone is a teensey weensey bit upset .. is your wife tired of your shit and leaving you too? I cant imagine why ...you seem so intelligent and well spoken :)

Anonymous said...

Probably one of the tiny dick comments....

Alex said...

OMG #282--don't marry him!

And #290, I agree with the others--leave!

Anonymous said...

#283--I was really saddened when I read yours. He doesn't desreve you or your child, and he will know this in the end.Good Luck and G-d Bless.
#290-- You need to get away from this toxic asshole IMMEDIATELY. If you're not already married to him, then RUN! You may love him now, but I promise you you'll never regret doing this b/c you need to love yourself enough first. This guy has absolutely no respect for you, and unfortunately that will never change. Remember one thing: never go into a relationship trying to change someone. Otherwise, you'll be stuck with this behavior (and this asshole) FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.

Anonymous said...

#289 - Yes!!! I hope the part about finally divorcing this scumbag is true. You need to leave for yours and the kids' sakes. Hope this guy gets himself put in jail and becomes someone else's bitch for a change.

Anonymous said...

I have a comment for the person that said "spending your husband's money" Apparently you haven't read anything some of these woman have said, it's not always the husband's money, If you think it's the husband's money then you obviously have issues unless of course your wife doesn't work, but I WORK, therefore half of that money is mine. Also talk to him and fuck him, yeah good call, cause that is all you were put on this earth to do right, is bring home money, have a tiny bit of conversation and then expect a piece of ass whenever you feel like it. Oh can I have your number because you sound like the perfect companion. (read: because you're probably stupid enough to think that is serious, please don't flatter yourself.)

Anonymous said...

I wanted to thank you for this site. I haven't used it to confess (I'm single and not looking), but I've been reading the posts. Because of it, I've started my own private confessions offline. It's been very cathartic to work out my anger. Many thanks.

Anonymous said...

Is the e mail to send in your confession not working for anyone else? It comes Up blank when you click the link.

Anonymous said...

I think 4:40 needs to come out of the closet already.

Anonymous said...

Leave him now! Men will not change.

Anonymous said...

#283 made me really, really sad.

Anonymous said...

To # 283? I'm so very very sorry for the pain you're in.

Anonymous said...

To everyone who sends in a confession - use this opportunity to listen to yourself. Listen to your heart and read the comments, it just might give you the strength you need to stay...or the strength you need to walk away.

And we are here to listen to you - even when he doesn't.

Anonymous said...

#282 Please, PLEASE, seriously reconsider marrying this man. Poker for entertainment is one thing; gambling addiction is another. Check out gamblers anonymous for resources.

Anonymous said...

wow this is hot. Seriously.. I dont know why but this stuff makes me hard. Anyway I do my best, and we are getting by quite well. I know its hard for women who sometimes ruled by their emotions. Just remember, men are likewise ruled by their avoidance of being ruled by emotions. Digest that, find a middle ground and things will be good.

Man, I've never been so gratefull to have a big dick. Things like "it hurts my mouth" and "dont even think of the ass" are suddenly music to my ears.

Best of luck to everyone struggling... pain and turmoil at home and with family is so rough its just not fair.

Anonymous said...

#284 Just do it... all girls need a big black d every so often