Monday, December 06, 2010

True Wife Confessions 33 Rolling Rock

Confession #321

Why must you call to tell me that the power just went out & you were about to make dinner, well..... ok, looks like we are having pb&j to eat & why must I call the power company to report the outage. After all if you can call a boat dealership to get a boat loan, then why is it so hard for you to call the energy company and let then know that we have no power!!! pussy

Confession #322

I had an abortion, right before we got married... I could never ever tell you this and never ever will! I feel like shit that you don't know anything about this and I thank God we have a beautiful little one now!

Confession #323

Sometimes, when we are having sex. I hurry things along because there is dramah on the message board I post at. Yes, I am more interested in reading the dramah, than having a quickie with you. Tuna Cones and sybermommys are far more entertaining.

Confession #324

You have given me more than I could have ever imagined.
I still get butterflies when I see you. After 8 years, you still make me giddy like you did when we first started dating.
When I look at our children and I see you in them, it makes me love you that much more. I know that your childhood was hard and you didn't have your mother and father around much, but you never show any resentment and somehow you know how to do everything for your children that your parents didn't do for you. You are my strength and my comfort. I could spend the day wrapped up in your arms. I take you for granted so many times, but when I stop to think about it, I can't believe I have someone as amazing as you. I know I say it everyday, but I mean this more than I can express: I love you. Thank you for being you.

Confession #325

The only reason i'm still with you is because he
wouldn't leave her for me. I've played the naive
victim role to keep you here. I still don't love you
and I don't know if I ever will but you are a decent
father and I don't want to get a job. I know I suck.


Confession #326

When you were out of town 2 years ago cheating on me, I was sleeping with your best friend. I just give you a hard time because I don't want you to be hurt the way I was hurt the 3 times you cheated on me.

Confession #327

When we fight or you make me feel bad about myself, I secretly think about the married man I slept with for two years before I married you. He wouldn't leave his wife and kids (though he said in the beginning that he was going to), but we've messaged each other recently and he still thinks of me as 'the one that got away'. I wish you knew that someone else wants me so you'd treat me better

Confession #328

I got engaged to you when I found out I was pregnant. When I lost the baby
I should have taken it as a sign to change the direction of my life, but I
didn't. I married you anyway, because I didn't want everyone to think that
I was just marrying you because of the baby. I was. Now I'm miserable
being married to you, and spend my days googling ex-boyfriends and dreaming
of ways to leave you.

Confession #329

I did know that the ice tea in the fridge was yours and that you were saving it. I was just thirsty and it looked good.

Confession #330

I start fights at bedtime so that you won't try to have sex with me.

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

322. He needs to know this. Whats the point of being married just to hold the biggest secret of your life from him. this is wrong all around. first doing this without his input and second keeping it from him. Any real man would forgive you...so tell him.

323 & 330. why are you two even wasting your time with your partners? If I thought my wife was avoiding sex with me or would rather be doing something else...it would probably be the beginning of the end for me. You cant be in love with someone you dont WANT to have sex with.

326. I think your in the clear. it was probably a bad choice and two wrongs dont make a right. it obviously didnt mean anything to you and the fact that he was cheating means that your infidelity should be forgiven. given the situation, I dont think it was a big deal. But he needs to know what kind of best friend he has. Any man that would sleep with his best friends wife is a scumbag

Anonymous said...

I wonder if the author of this site is lesbian or gay? Way to tear down traditional marriage. Don't believe me. All the so-called bloggers on here obviously hate straight marriage, its horrible, overbearing and slavish for the women. Now answer me this, do you hold the same view of gay marriage...? Of course not its noble, perfect and loving right? And you wonder why we have a generation of loveless bastard children.

Anonymous said...

The author of this site is neither gay nor lesbian. The author is straight, married to a member of the opposite sex, and the biological parent of a child.

Dawn said...

I am the founder of this site. I have been with my husband since 1991. We married in 1996, and had our daughter in 1998.

My views are that marriage is incredibly hard, regardless of your sexual orientation. My friends who are gay or lesbian and who are able to BE married have the same issues and problems as my straight friends who are married.

I think it is naive to believe that Marriage insures some kind of magical state of being within a relationship. My personal view is that most of us were sold a serious ration of bullshit about long term relationships, in general.

I also think that people who come to blogs to try to prove some homophobic viewpoint are real assholes.

But that is just my opinion.

Anonymous said...

326,
I know your H has done something horrible but treating him bad for it while you have done the same is nothing short of hypocritical. You need to tell him, not to make your marriage stronger, not to clear your conscious, not help move your life along but because he has the right to know.

If you cannot do this than please reevaluate why you are with him. Because with your actions you cannot claim to love or respect him


Good luck and I hope you do the right thing

Anonymous said...

323...its "drama," not "dramah." sheesh

Anonymous said...

I laughed hard as hell when I read #330's post. WoW! Anyone who says sex isn't an important part of a relationship is either bad at it, has a parter that is bad at it, or isn't getting it.

FaeMoon said...

#329 Cracks me up

#321 This could have been my spouse. Calling me to tell me to call the power company because he didn't know how much time he had on his phone because he forgot to plug it in. But he had enough time to tell me...?

Anonymous said...

328- you are not alone.. I am in the same boat