tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post9134077541886650712..comments2023-08-25T09:21:25.015-04:00Comments on True Wife Confessions: True Wife Confessions 305 bird seeds on the groundDawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-91823837153330108412011-05-03T17:12:22.048-04:002011-05-03T17:12:22.048-04:00#3050--
perhaps because you're a junkie?#3050--<br /><br />perhaps because you're a junkie?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-2017606161961056282009-12-11T23:41:14.674-05:002009-12-11T23:41:14.674-05:003042, here.
I ended it. And miss him terribly. ...3042, here.<br /><br />I ended it. And miss him terribly. Thanks for the advice, I appriciate it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-27398730302746153322009-12-06T18:57:23.381-05:002009-12-06T18:57:23.381-05:003050, so do your kids actually get their ADD meds?...3050, so do your kids actually get their ADD meds?Amanda Nelliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05691700450226607478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-25178312771365184822009-12-04T18:43:16.484-05:002009-12-04T18:43:16.484-05:00#3044 Im with you I want out....I want to be happy...#3044 Im with you I want out....I want to be happy. I gave 10 years of my life. We can do it, we are STRONGE.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-81970384610801396072009-12-04T12:26:10.521-05:002009-12-04T12:26:10.521-05:00#3046 - Grow a pair and stop playing passive aggre...#3046 - Grow a pair and stop playing passive aggressive games. It's pathetic.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15114191808501237357noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-17209179272704667042009-12-04T11:31:46.826-05:002009-12-04T11:31:46.826-05:00#3044 I think you're me. It's time to go. ...#3044 I think you're me. It's time to go. You know it. It's going to suck for awhile, but your kids deserve a happy mom.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-31583231751246582562009-12-03T04:22:18.888-05:002009-12-03T04:22:18.888-05:00to 3045, maybe your partner is depressed. Have yo...to 3045, maybe your partner is depressed. Have you considered that? You sound like a rather cold person. I actually feel sorry for your husband.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-36784636657348745562009-12-02T20:25:23.988-05:002009-12-02T20:25:23.988-05:00#3048 has got to be a joke ...#3048 has got to be a joke ...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-64432456618130898022009-12-02T20:05:33.900-05:002009-12-02T20:05:33.900-05:003048 - your husband might not have heard you, but ...3048 - your husband might not have heard you, but I'll bet the folks in the next door trailer did.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-46508461085236708392009-12-01T08:10:16.131-05:002009-12-01T08:10:16.131-05:003048, you are pathetic.3048, you are pathetic.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-76009467605334606002009-12-01T03:47:33.064-05:002009-12-01T03:47:33.064-05:00to Confession #3042:
I think you need to be hones...to Confession #3042:<br /><br />I think you need to be honest and tell your husband the truth. Just because he has ED doesn't mean the sex has to be bad. You need to be open and discuss this with him. Sex is extremely important in a relationship, and if you're getting that pleasure from another man, that can be really hurtful. Just think about it like this. <br /><br />Would you like it if he had more pleasure with another woman than he does with you?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-29328836057194926362009-11-30T23:48:21.362-05:002009-11-30T23:48:21.362-05:00I have to disagree somewhat with B., regarding #30...I have to disagree somewhat with B., regarding #3042. You are correct in saying that we can't always expect one person (spouse or significant other) to fulfill all of our needs all of the time. However, I don't believe that gives anyone license to cheat. If your sexual needs truly aren't being met at home, then either (1) live with it, (2) discuss the situation with your partner and perhaps decide to open the marriage, or (3) leave your partner. But have some respect for your partner and the relationship the two of you have, and don't cheat on him/her.<br /><br />Also, there's no rule or law or guarantee that all of ones need will or even should be met. Sometimes some of what you consider "needs" just won't be met, period. You have to decide if you can live with that or not. And while it's true that one's partner cannot meet all of one's intellectual or emotional needs either, lets not pretend that sexual needs aren't different -- having a philosophical discussion with a coworker or friend is a far cry from screwing the coworker or friend.<br /><br />The original poster's situation is a little bit different, in that she and her husband initially decided to (sort of) swing together, but then she still slept with the other guy even knowing that her husband didn't want her to do so and didn't want to swing with that couple, so she is still cheating.<br /><br />In my opinion, #3042, you should not have sex with that other guy anymore, unless/until you discuss it with your husband and if he says it's ok with him and means it. Polyamory/swinging would not work for me -- I'm monogamous through-and-through, as is my boyfriend -- but I acknowledge that it can and does work for some people. It's certainly better than cheating, in any case. Not to mention the possibility of getting HIV or some other STD, and possibly passing it on to your husband (God forbid).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-889926417653316942009-11-30T20:10:41.090-05:002009-11-30T20:10:41.090-05:00to #3050 - if you mean you were looking for you ki...to #3050 - if you mean you were looking for you kid's meds so YOU could take them, then good on your husband for hiding them. If you need help, chemical help, see a professional and get your own prescription. Taking your kids' pills is a step on a way slippery slope.Billhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13436701823088412407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-52329378493075234112009-11-30T15:40:22.231-05:002009-11-30T15:40:22.231-05:00To #3042...
I'm sure I'm going to get a l...To #3042...<br /><br />I'm sure I'm going to get a lot of slack for this, but that's okay. I'm a big girl, I can take it.<br /><br />Out the outside, the easy answer is yes, you're wrong. You shouldn't be having an affair. You say you love your husband so much, then you should respect him enough not to cheat on him. <br /><br />The not-so-easy answer is that we all have needs. Personally, I feel it is impossible to find ONE person to meet ALL of ones needs. And I don't just mean sexual needs... we have intellectual needs, emotional needs, we need different types of friendships and different types of relationships. I think it's naive to believe that, just because you are married, that your spouse will fulfill your EVERY want and desire. <br /><br />Is having an affair wrong? Yes. But life is short and you should be able to have the basic things in life you need and desire. If your husband is open to the idea of swinging, maybe you can find another couple where everyone has a mutual attraction and go from there. Even with ED, there are still things your husband can do sexually. <br /><br />If swinging isn't an option but you're still interested in looking elsewhere for your sexual needs, then you better be careful not to get caught. If you truly love your husband, I'm sure you don't want him to get hurt, and that's exactly what an affair would do. Then again, <i>not</i> having an affair might end up hurting you (depression, resentment, frustration, etc.).<br /><br />It's not an easy decision, but it's one that <b>you</b> have to make for yourself.B.noreply@blogger.com