tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post8437888319895075240..comments2023-08-25T09:21:25.015-04:00Comments on True Wife Confessions: True Wife Confessions 283 tea leavesDawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-48235717164283312702009-05-26T12:24:27.842-04:002009-05-26T12:24:27.842-04:00Thoughts on Viagra... taking won't automatically c...Thoughts on Viagra... taking won't automatically cause him to have an erection... there still has to be some 'stimulus'... I totally adore the woman that I am involved with, but I have a problem related to the use of an anti-depressant that sometimes causes erection problems... anyway, my point is to ask you to please don't assume that he's not attracted to you just because he needs 'help' there... that could be the furthest from the truth...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-12792425920247740132009-05-25T14:51:20.434-04:002009-05-25T14:51:20.434-04:00Your all sad people. You don't know hardship thats...Your all sad people. You don't know hardship thats your problem...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-75334225287798265682009-03-29T12:09:00.000-04:002009-03-29T12:09:00.000-04:00The ones that are getting it don't want it and the...The ones that are getting it don't want it and the ones that don't want it are getting it. If they started getting it they would stop wanting it and if the stopped getting it they would start wanting it. Women can not be pleased.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-32787288211426780162009-02-28T09:36:00.000-05:002009-02-28T09:36:00.000-05:002828 here. I did indeed tell him what I know. He...2828 here. I did indeed tell him what I know. He said he doesn't take it very often, but after we've been together 4 or 5 nights in a row already, he takes it. I told him I'm fine with that, and neither of us has mentioned it since. Like 12:19 said, the sex is awesome, so who cares? <BR/><BR/>My thanks go to all who responded. It was very, very helpful to hear the perspective of those who have been there and done that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-68973231211458402892009-02-27T18:21:00.000-05:002009-02-27T18:21:00.000-05:002828 - When I started dating the man I'm now marri...2828 - When I started dating the man I'm now married to, I was blown away by the over the top sex. He said that the sex was so good because I turned him on. Not once did I suspect our lovemaking was medically enhanced. Not until I went to slip a love note into his wallet and found three blue pills wrapped in tissue tucked inside. <BR/><BR/>By this point we were 3 yrs into the relationship, and I honestly felt rather hurt that he hadn't trusted me enough to share with me that he was taking Viagra. <BR/><BR/>My advice is to get honest and do it fast. Tell him the truth and give him the opportunity to be honest in return. <BR/><BR/>I wish my husband had been honest with me from the get go, but he wasn't, and that hurt. I'm a bit believer in the truth and nothing but the truth.Lucyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10089327136603829647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-82212627455560281792009-02-26T09:10:00.000-05:002009-02-26T09:10:00.000-05:00#2828: My 1st advice ever in here! Start taking Gu...#2828: My 1st advice ever in here! Start taking GuaranĂ¡ as a suplement, if you are caffeine tolerant, see how it feels and come back to him about it, then you'll know/share what it means to have pills-enhaced-sex..., maybe then he'll open up to you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-52974622870676403352009-02-25T21:53:00.000-05:002009-02-25T21:53:00.000-05:002829: I think we're married to the same person! ...2829: I think we're married to the same person! And I feel the same way -- there's something really degrading about having to say to someone, "Do you think you could come over here and hold my hand?" and knowing that half the time he'll tell you know. I don't ask for any affection anymore and as a result I don't get any. I kind of conducted a little experiment to see how long it would take him to actually be kind to me on his own initiative and it was approximately two months. It seems weird that it wouldn't occur to him on his own to hold my hand, or put his arm around me or cuddle with me on the couch for two months! It makes you feel like a rancid piece of fruit or something -- like am I so disgusting that he doesn't even want to touch me? Not normal I say.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-24961897373487727442009-02-25T18:30:00.000-05:002009-02-25T18:30:00.000-05:00@11:30 -- she has been talking to him. He isn't li...@11:30 -- she has been talking to him. He isn't listening!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-5614961768502844382009-02-25T00:39:00.000-05:002009-02-25T00:39:00.000-05:002829: I know exactly how you feel. Once you have t...2829: I know exactly how you feel. Once you have told someone 100 times what you need, it's frustrating as hell when they still don't get it. How hard is it to show affection? I don't think it's childish at all. It would be nice to be touched at times OTHER than when sex is wanted from you, right? After years, asking gets tiresome. No, he's not a mind-reader, but he's also pretty effing stupid/uncaring/self-absorbed.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-53976740781167194972009-02-25T00:19:00.000-05:002009-02-25T00:19:00.000-05:002828 : my man takes viagra, and i love it. i don't...2828 : my man takes viagra, and i love it. i don't care... and i don't think it needs to be a discussion. i'm happy, he's happy, sex is fan-frigging-tastic... who cares?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-72204919778978394962009-02-24T11:30:00.000-05:002009-02-24T11:30:00.000-05:002829:There is nothing wrong with having to ask for...2829:<BR/><BR/>There is nothing wrong with having to ask for attention and affection. It is not worth divorcing over.<BR/><BR/>This seems a little childish to me. <BR/><BR/>ASK for a hug, initiate footsie. If you want it, then make it happen or ASK FOR IT.<BR/><BR/>Your husband cannot read your mind.<BR/><BR/>Ask for what you want. No matter who you are with, you are going to have to ask for things you need.<BR/><BR/>If he refuses to provide what you need once you've ASKED, then you have a real problem.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-22903422929584370512009-02-23T18:25:00.000-05:002009-02-23T18:25:00.000-05:00#2828 tell him you found it. Tell him it's all rig...#2828 tell him you found it. Tell him it's all right. Tell him not to hide anything from you.<BR/><BR/>He may be as torn as you are.the Yearning Hearthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07556108478723898035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-17894865588557103192009-02-23T14:34:00.000-05:002009-02-23T14:34:00.000-05:00#2830 - I hear you. Sometimes nothing is right, s...#2830 - I hear you. Sometimes nothing is right, sometimes everyting sucks. Hopefully, venting it out was helpful for you. I hope tomorrow is better.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com