tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post6891914890843391763..comments2023-08-25T09:21:25.015-04:00Comments on True Wife Confessions: True Wife Confession 200 dollars for passing "Go"Dawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-52635878683606047012007-08-10T03:10:00.000-04:002007-08-10T03:10:00.000-04:00#1991, #1995 and #1996 please check out Trust me ...<B>#1991, #1995</B> and <B>#1996</B> please check out <A HREF="http://www.survivinginfidelity.com" REL="nofollow"/> Trust me when I say you will get a lot of support there for what you are going through.<BR/><BR/>#1995 I don't know exactly what going on but if you have a gut feeling there's a lot of info on how to find out whats happening in your marriage.<BR/><BR/>#1996 survivinginfidelity.com will definitely aid you in what you're trying to do. I've suggested this site to so many people and some on this very site.Nathynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11644982723902266418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-91449370522228820702007-08-10T03:04:00.000-04:002007-08-10T03:04:00.000-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Nathynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11644982723902266418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-5422333812136588092007-08-10T02:48:00.000-04:002007-08-10T02:48:00.000-04:00#1992 Listen to what they're saying. Abusers rarel...#1992 Listen to what they're saying. Abusers rarely change unless they undergo deep psychological counseling. And you guys also need marriage counseling otherwise this marriage may have to come to an end.Nathynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11644982723902266418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-61172183361242748722007-08-09T23:01:00.000-04:002007-08-09T23:01:00.000-04:00Lola, I think anon 5:56 is a man.Lola, I think anon 5:56 is a man.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-7887758683923777662007-08-09T22:25:00.000-04:002007-08-09T22:25:00.000-04:001994 -- stop being a doormat.1994 -- stop being a doormat.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-17920877303012308722007-08-09T16:45:00.000-04:002007-08-09T16:45:00.000-04:005:56pm said:Sounds like #2000 is playing the victi...5:56pm said:Sounds like #2000 is playing the victim. Men just don't say things like that out of the blue. What did you do? <BR/><BR/>WHAT DID YOU DO???? Did I read that right? What did SHE DO? Did it ever occur to you that maybe she didn't do anything "more" than wake up breathing that day? Did it ever enter your head that she's married to a miserable son-of-a-bitch who uses words as weapons? I grew up with a father like that and I assure you ... there was seldom if anything my mother ever did to warrant his nastiness. <BR/><BR/>Why is it that the women on TWC can't just be a little more compassionate to one another? Why is it so easy to attack and point fingers and say: "WHAT DID YOU DO" to deserve such bad treatment? <BR/><BR/>Think about it ladies. Think about how quick some of you are to judge your sisters. Then think about why so many women remain silent in the face of horrible marriages, abuse, financial ruin, etc. <BR/><BR/>A little support and human kindness would go a long way. <BR/><BR/>~ LolaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-46715636005073635612007-08-09T13:06:00.000-04:002007-08-09T13:06:00.000-04:001992:He won't change unless you make him. But, I ...1992:<BR/>He won't change unless you make him. But, I tried that and it didn't work. It may not happen again for a bit, but it will happen. Mine put a gun to my head even after he was convicted of DV. Get help now.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-35723134815820385062007-08-09T11:38:00.000-04:002007-08-09T11:38:00.000-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Stacey T.https://www.blogger.com/profile/14054846009757731706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-38176487521296452292007-08-09T11:34:00.000-04:002007-08-09T11:34:00.000-04:001992 - I lived it for 10 years....then finally le...1992 - I lived it for 10 years....then finally left, sneaking away in the morning hours after he went to work, driving 3000 miles and making a new life for myself (we had no children, thank God). My family helped a lot when I explained to them what was going on. It's been 12 years. I got remarried.... I thought about him (the ex), and thought I still loved him. He contacted me, I felt that feeling again, the co-dependent feeling on his love. We were able to have a decent email conversation and that was all I needed for closure. No blame, etc. I do not love him, I only did for a little. The feelings I thought were love, were co-depencency. Try to read the book "Co-dependent No More".Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-59377098648461184092007-08-09T10:41:00.000-04:002007-08-09T10:41:00.000-04:00#1991I could have written your confession from top...#1991<BR/><BR/>I could have written your confession from top to bottom. It is the hardest thing to put into words but as soon as I read what you wrote I knew you had done what I couldn't. I don't want to love someone else, I just want him to love me as much as I do him.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-39211798124503269612007-08-09T08:30:00.000-04:002007-08-09T08:30:00.000-04:00anonymous 5:36 PMPlaying the victim? Good Lord, p...anonymous 5:36 PM<BR/><BR/>Playing the victim? Good Lord, people say things like "regretted ever marry me" and worse. People are cruel. Passive aggressive people don't leave someone when they are unhappy with the marriage. They try to drive their spouse away because they don't have the guts to leave.KimberlyDihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09703413352151196546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-25433634649191133952007-08-08T17:36:00.000-04:002007-08-08T17:36:00.000-04:00Sounds like #2000 is playing the victim. Men just ...Sounds like #2000 is playing the victim. Men just don't say things like that out of the blue. What did you do?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-61870763924566051882007-08-08T13:57:00.000-04:002007-08-08T13:57:00.000-04:00#1992--I don't know why those of us who have been ...#1992--<BR/>I don't know why those of us who have been on the receiving end of abuse from the men we love are so ashamed of people knowing, but we are. It feels humiliating, that they know our dirty little secret, the one we never wanted to tell. But, telling the truth is freedom. Telling the truth is brave. Telling the truth makes it harder for us to pretend that there is nothing wrong with what they do.<BR/><BR/>You did the right thing by calling the cops. Leaving my abusive ex-boyfriend was the hardest thing I've ever done in my life. It hurt worse than anything. But now, 8 months later, I am so much stronger. I realize I don't need a man who hits me.<BR/><BR/>Neither do you. And no matter how good the 80% is, it doesn't make up for that violent 20%. It just doesn't.Troublehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16553273498093394669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-37685549382818124382007-08-08T12:34:00.000-04:002007-08-08T12:34:00.000-04:0019:92 - I have been where you are. Anyone who ha...19:92 - I have been where you are. Anyone who hasn't, can't begin to guess why you stay. I know why you stay, but am not sure I can convey it to you in writing. You stay because if you leave after you've been hit, you leave feeling worthless...how can someone who loves you do that? If you stay, if you give him another chance, surely he will love you enough NEVER to do it again, and then you will be whole.<BR/>I am so sorry, but please don't wait around for him to stop hitting you. He won't. I will pray that he gets the help he needs to one day be with you again and not abuse you, but I will pray HARDER that you get the strength to realize it is NOT about you, it is NOT about love...it is about violence, and you are good and whole and self confident enough NOT to take it anymore!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-58337058743636703592007-08-08T09:22:00.000-04:002007-08-08T09:22:00.000-04:002000: I am so sorry. That is just heartbreaking. I...2000: I am so sorry. That is just heartbreaking. <BR/><BR/>It happened to me too, about ten years ago. My heart broke into a billion pieces and I thought I'd never be okay again.<BR/><BR/>Now I am happily married to a really great man and my ex-husband seems like a bad dream I once had. <BR/><BR/>You'll get through this. My prayers are with you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-44356684913238886192007-08-08T00:54:00.000-04:002007-08-08T00:54:00.000-04:001992: You need to press charges and leave. A few ...1992: You need to press charges and leave. A few weeks ago, a neighbor held a gun to his wife's head. She's lucky to be alive. He was a cop so of course there were like 8 cop cars on the street to try to prevent their brother in blue from doing something stupid.<BR/><BR/>Please protect yourself. Please leave. (Please!)<BR/><BR/><BR/>1994: If you find it too hard to tell the loser an outright "no" for the rides, tell him that it's not convenient because you have other plans.<BR/><BR/><BR/>2000: What a bastard he is.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-47353249026348905682007-08-07T21:11:00.000-04:002007-08-07T21:11:00.000-04:00Wow!Wow!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-49968332153390825512007-08-07T20:20:00.000-04:002007-08-07T20:20:00.000-04:001992 - do you honestly believe this will change th...1992 - do you honestly believe this will change things? He's had enough time to get help and stop beating you, but he hasn't. He doesn't want to. Have him arrested, then leave. It's not easy, but you must do it. Do you want your kids growing up and thinking that it's perfectly okay to hit women; it's perfectly ok to be abused?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-21225797197358537772007-08-07T18:12:00.000-04:002007-08-07T18:12:00.000-04:002000: I'm so sorry. I heard those words myself o...2000: I'm so sorry. I heard those words myself once, in another life. As hard as it may be to believe, you will feel better someday. You will.sandy shoeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05617376664356510015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-10131302501387081672007-08-07T18:05:00.000-04:002007-08-07T18:05:00.000-04:001992: there is no "part of him" that doesn't hit ...1992: there is no "part of him" that doesn't hit you. ALL OF HIM hits you. Of course leaving isn't easy. Do it anyway. <BR/><BR/>It's good that the neighbors know... maybe you can crawl to their house if you're broken and bleeding? <BR/><BR/>GET. OUT. NOW.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-57538655655551578872007-08-07T17:50:00.000-04:002007-08-07T17:50:00.000-04:001992Don't 'pray' he gets the help he needs...MAKE ...1992<BR/><BR/>Don't 'pray' he gets the help he needs...MAKE him get the help he needs or LEAVE him. Being alone is better than being beaten or dead.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-84120110899507803002007-08-07T14:32:00.000-04:002007-08-07T14:32:00.000-04:00~ guilt, desire to still be with him, lack of both...~ guilt, desire to still be with him, lack of both the strength to fight or the ability to be the "Bad Guy".<BR/><BR/>................... #1994Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-16272524817280938862007-08-07T14:13:00.000-04:002007-08-07T14:13:00.000-04:001994: I know this will come off as sounding rude,...1994: I know this will come off as sounding rude, but why don't you tell him he can't have a ride? Just curious...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com