tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post6825392006503470178..comments2023-08-25T09:21:25.015-04:00Comments on True Wife Confessions: True Wife Confessions 204 - request recieved...no responseDawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-87137838031949014762007-09-02T03:25:00.000-04:002007-09-02T03:25:00.000-04:002040, you sound like a very courageous woman and I...2040, you sound like a very courageous woman and I wish all the best for you in your new life. Move on and take care of your children. There are billions of men in this world, you never have to settle for less than you deserve. And we all deserve to be treated with Respect.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-79858625201128980282007-09-01T12:23:00.000-04:002007-09-01T12:23:00.000-04:00Wow we got an advertizing spam... inventive!Wow we got an advertizing spam... inventive!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-9248219975652741152007-09-01T09:44:00.000-04:002007-09-01T09:44:00.000-04:00So I think we can all safely say that anyone who s...So I think we can all safely say that anyone who says they're marriage is perfect is lying through their teeth! I'm with a great guy now but my problem is I still think about my ex during sex. So, I talked to some friends and they recommended <A HREF="http://store.yahoo.com/cgi-bin/clink?yhst-26269226845985+SAR6aP+le781.html" REL="nofollow">Jack Rabbit Vibrators</A>. I bought one from HealthyAndActive.com and it's awesome! They even shipped it to my apartment in a plain box. I'm definitely smiling now, and my husband is none the wiser!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-69994992549862599252007-08-31T12:14:00.000-04:002007-08-31T12:14:00.000-04:00anonyman-what do you mean by that?anonyman-what do you mean by that?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-9009291273608138462007-08-30T16:48:00.000-04:002007-08-30T16:48:00.000-04:00#2033 - you're doing it to yourself.#2033 - you're doing it to yourself.Spread compassion, save the worldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16803631306631904247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-29989777526543509952007-08-30T16:39:00.000-04:002007-08-30T16:39:00.000-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Spread compassion, save the worldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16803631306631904247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-11848430971607367772007-08-29T16:18:00.000-04:002007-08-29T16:18:00.000-04:002040 here, I guess since I am signed into my blog ...2040 here, I guess since I am signed into my blog I am no longer anonymous, which I really did not care about anyway. I am sticking with my decision. This particular blog just gave me the opportunity to open up and voice something I was not able to in person, that I still love him and no after saying it, it is all seems just human that it be that way. I think it would be strange if it was any other way. I mean I was married to him, I did marry him, have kids with him, share a life that was more than the abuse. I am still leaving that life though and am hopeful as well as sad.<BR/><BR/>To 4.12: There is someone who is all the way the one out there for you. Someone who is present and wonderful to you 100% of the time. I have faith in it still, you should too. You can and you will love another because eventually, sooner hopefully rather than later you will decide you are worth more or he will decide it for you. You will love more and be full.<BR/><BR/>Thank you everyone to your support, I liked this site because it makes me feel less alone (even though I am well aware more awful things happen to others that have happened to me for sure).<BR/><BR/>10.47: I am grown up. I am a good mother and my kids are just as wonderful as any one else's. I make mistakes like every other human being on this earth, but I try very hard to not be judgmental. I am glad nothing like this has ever been in your life. I also hope that you are more forgiving of yourself than you are of other so that at the end of your life the weight on your shoulders is not too heavy.<BR/><BR/>Onehungman should start the husband site so we can see what the men have to say about us uncensored.<BR/><BR/>Peace and love to you beautiful strong women!Layers of Everythinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11898883853751177188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-53283382992180844862007-08-29T15:49:00.000-04:002007-08-29T15:49:00.000-04:004:12 Yes there is such a thing as "the one", howev...4:12 <BR/>Yes there is such a thing as "the one", however "the one" should not treat you like that, EVER. No relationship is perfect but what you describe saddens me. Life isn't a fairy tale but it certainly is better than that. You need to love and respect yourself and have a life of your own outside of any man. You are doing what I did, putting your self into a box, refusing to stand for who you are, suffering for no other reason than this has to be "the one" and if I lose this I'm nothing. You are a person with out him and someone else is out there ready to love you with out all the garbage. But first you need to learn to stand alone and love yourself.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-46595901512388299402007-08-29T14:51:00.000-04:002007-08-29T14:51:00.000-04:00What number of True Husband Confessions are you on...What number of True Husband Confessions are you on?OneHungManhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02153343488554848976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-26699040965317749232007-08-29T13:48:00.000-04:002007-08-29T13:48:00.000-04:002040 - I know what you're going through. I'm halfw...2040 - I know what you're going through. I'm halfway out the door on a similar situation, though I have no children. Yet I can't get myself to take that final step. He's not violent often at all and I keep seeing the sweet side of him. The side I'm so in love with. The logical girl in me says the same thing the others do, you should leave him, you deserve more. The other girl in me wishes she should make it as easy as it sounds. I wish the very best for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-27073050879736939112007-08-29T11:56:00.000-04:002007-08-29T11:56:00.000-04:00This is 4:12 againI think that it's because I know...This is 4:12 again<BR/><BR/>I think that it's because I know, I've always known, that he's "the one", and he knows it too. If he would just get his shit together everything could be like it's supposed to be. He's the man I am meant to be with, I know that, so if I leave....there's only 1 "one" right? It's like that old Temptations song "I could never never love another after loving you."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-77760582812950739782007-08-29T03:53:00.000-04:002007-08-29T03:53:00.000-04:004:12-the nice part shows up when you have your foo...4:12-the nice part shows up when you have your foot out the door to reel you back in. Its manipulation at its best. He knows he's losing you and will do whatever it takes to hold on to you, and when he feels secure, will go back to the same ole shit. walking the same walk myself right now...when you love someone, its hard to stop hoping for the best. one day it has to be done though. <BR/>#2040- i know what you mean too, the only thing that makes me know i have to leave is that my children deserve better...if it was only me...i dont know. Good luck to you...you already know the right answer.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-84067965630878285452007-08-28T21:53:00.000-04:002007-08-28T21:53:00.000-04:002034 - have you talked to your husband and told hi...2034 - have you talked to your husband and told him what you need? Cheating is only going to make the problem worse.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-70054402216133799412007-08-28T19:10:00.000-04:002007-08-28T19:10:00.000-04:002037-I hate mine too2037-I hate mine tooAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-44264801168903218942007-08-28T16:48:00.000-04:002007-08-28T16:48:00.000-04:0010:47amI feel so sorry for you, you are very rude....10:47am<BR/>I feel so sorry for you, you are very rude. Yes I understand that you want to let your opinion out. But one thing is stating you mind, and another is just being rude. <BR/><BR/>#2040 needs support and guidance right now, the last thing she needs is someone telling her and insulting (again) her like you did. DIDN'T YOU JUST READ WHAT SHE WROTE, ARE YOU A RETARD!<BR/><BR/>And to answer your question as to WHY WHY WHY..., women make mistakes, and meeting this guy was a mistake, that she will soon pass.<BR/><BR/>I never knew that there was someone else in the world that was perfect...I thought there was just ONE!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-62478264671511636672007-08-28T16:34:00.000-04:002007-08-28T16:34:00.000-04:004:12pmI think you should be a backbone to 2040. Yo...4:12pm<BR/>I think you should be a backbone to 2040. You both have the same experience, and could help each other out (in the sense that you have been in each other's shoes)<BR/><BR/>PLEASE LEAVE THAT MAN AS WELL. HE IS NOT GOOD, NOT EVEN IF IT'S ONLY FOR 10% OF THE TIME. <BR/><BR/>WE AS WOMEN NEED 100%, NOT A PERFECT MAN, BUT SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T HIT US OR CALL US NAME. wE ALL NEED THAT ALL OF US WOMEN DESERVE A GOOD MAN!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-78288828206186725802007-08-28T16:12:00.000-04:002007-08-28T16:12:00.000-04:002040: I know how you feel. My boyfriend is like t...2040: I know how you feel. My boyfriend is like that. But he is an alcoholic. When he's drinking, he talks to me like I am a dog and treats me like I am shit. But that's only about 10% of the time. 80% of the time he's his usual self - humdrum but happy, not very passionate or loving. But then there's that FUCKING WONDERFUL 10% of the time when he is the person I thought he was when we first met - he is SO GODDAMN LOVING and nice and thoughtful and he tells me how much he loves me and please never leave him. Just when I've reached the breaking point, when I've got one foot out the door...that fucking wonderful side of him shows up. It's just so hard for me to leave him. He's my first and only....he's my habit...I'm comfortable with him, even when he's a drunken asshole...I don't feel like I have a life outside of him. Anyway, that's how I feel. I guess some people just get REALLY REALLY emotionally attached to their "other" and it's like cutting off a body part to separate yourself from them. Anyway, love is so hard and shitty...and wonderful....and very shitty.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-19829217823665561562007-08-28T15:53:00.000-04:002007-08-28T15:53:00.000-04:002031 (and 1:33p.m.) - Ditto2033 - "shiteously" - t...2031 (and 1:33p.m.) - Ditto<BR/><BR/>2033 - "shiteously" - that's my new favourite word I LOVE IT!!!!<BR/><BR/>2040 - everyone feels for you. You have already shown how brave you are by telling your story and writing a confession. And now you have behind you the support and strength of thousands of women. Use it...And send us an updateDana - W for Whateverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01028118268752047123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-86657857969468567082007-08-28T13:33:00.000-04:002007-08-28T13:33:00.000-04:00#2031: Amen, sistah, I could have written this! It...#2031: Amen, sistah, I could have written this! It's gently and eloquently worded, can you print it out and show it to him? Or maybe take a verbal lead yourself, so that he answers? Or give him a Scooby Snack whenever he pipes up? I know how frustrating it is when they ignore wee but important requests. Personally, I had to hammer on a few repeatedly before my husband could become (mostly) mindful of what I needed. Hang in there!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-58441834297673719432007-08-28T13:12:00.000-04:002007-08-28T13:12:00.000-04:00Oh my goodness, I can't even imagine the mental st...Oh my goodness, I can't even imagine the mental stress you are under at this time. I will pray for you. I'll pray that you put God first in your decision making and you listen when He(God) tells you what to do and when to do it. I pray that your children will not be affected by this. I pray that you will be able to see pass this situation and use it for leverage not a crutch to remain in the same spot. One can always say what one will do when you aren't the person walking that walk. But when you are the taking that walk of "how the hell did I end up here", its time to re-evaluate a lot of things. Please get help for yourself and your children. They'll need it to work out emotional problems or just dealing with life period. Stay safe. Love God, love yourself, love your children. Be BlessedAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-50778838888633590712007-08-28T12:34:00.000-04:002007-08-28T12:34:00.000-04:00I'm pretty sure that 2040 knows this is a bad situ...I'm pretty sure that 2040 knows this is a bad situation for her children to be in. I can't see how attacking her further is remotely helpful.<BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>#2040 Read back over what you wrote, please. Just read it. He doesn't love you, nor does he deserve you. You already did the hardest part - you left. You got out! Now you have to refuse to go back. Please remember that you are better than this, you deserve better than abuse punctuated with false I love yous that serve only to keep you hostage. Be strong. You know what you need to do.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-67449485494486735932007-08-28T12:25:00.000-04:002007-08-28T12:25:00.000-04:002032: Me too. It's nice to know mine isn't the la...2032: Me too. It's nice to know mine isn't the last faithful happy marriage out. This site often suggests otherwise.<BR/><BR/>I'm glad you are so happy!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-30689800466931623492007-08-28T12:13:00.000-04:002007-08-28T12:13:00.000-04:002040 - I have no idea the pain you've gone through...2040 - I have no idea the pain you've gone through in your life, but regardless NO ONE, including YOU, should be treated that way. Follow through with your divorce and insist on supervised visitation (if any visitation at all) for your thankfully soon-to-be ex. Do this out of the immense love you have for your children. <BR/><BR/>Do not date until they are grown and moved out of the house. Break the cycle. Give them the happy childhood you want to give them because this is what will greatly determine if they are happy adults and the decisions they make in life. Do this for YOU. Do this for your children.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-68224389340940137542007-08-28T11:59:00.000-04:002007-08-28T11:59:00.000-04:0010:47obviously you have never been in such a relat...10:47<BR/><BR/>obviously you have never been in such a relationship, you have no place to talk about any of this. Especially not in your asshole way. Get over it and grow some fucking compassion.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-66552355762875847092007-08-28T11:31:00.000-04:002007-08-28T11:31:00.000-04:00#2037Congradulations!Hope you have 100 more! Good ...#2037<BR/>Congradulations!<BR/>Hope you have 100 more! Good Luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com