tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post5986386730340093683..comments2023-08-25T09:21:25.015-04:00Comments on True Wife Confessions: True Wife Confessions 83, a song by John Mayer...sigh.Dawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-33428833889929076562006-11-27T16:20:00.000-05:002006-11-27T16:20:00.000-05:00#824- I can't stand my stepson either. He's 15 and...#824- I can't stand my stepson either. He's 15 and acts like he's 4, and the only reason he does this (he's been tested) is because my husband allows it. I just want SS to go live with his mother in another state somewhere.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-54903270623210458082006-09-30T16:20:00.000-04:002006-09-30T16:20:00.000-04:00Stacey,
Yes. Kid #1 bought his own car, pays insu...Stacey,<br /><br />Yes. Kid #1 bought his own car, pays insurance, and is paying back college loans<br /><br />Kid2.. the one who actually lives here is saving for a home, often buys the groceries, pays her own health insurance, car etc<br /><br />I was being tongue in cheek. I was in a somewhat sarcastic way, pointing out that they are smarter than I, who jumped in the world broke, and stayed so:)Zoemonsterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17877620156823500528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-44283939586944850092006-09-29T14:28:00.000-04:002006-09-29T14:28:00.000-04:00#827 My guess would be if he keeps his underwear o...#827 My guess would be if he keeps his underwear on just pulled down I would check them. That's where I figured out what my husband was doing with it when he was done because it leaves a white stain in the underwearAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-75027928431242299092006-09-29T12:56:00.000-04:002006-09-29T12:56:00.000-04:00#827 Check under the bed, likely you will find a ...#827 Check under the bed, likely you will find a towell or an old t-shirt.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-16319407580546927782006-09-29T12:16:00.000-04:002006-09-29T12:16:00.000-04:00I have to agree with mex on the response to 825......I have to agree with mex on the response to 825...it's easy to wonder what might have been, but the reality is, he'd drive you nuts about much of the same stuff that your current husband does. But I think it's natural to wonder sometimes, and it seems like most of you realize you have it good.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-76163098173446761052006-09-29T12:11:00.000-04:002006-09-29T12:11:00.000-04:00mex--
I must disagree with your comment to #824. ...mex--<br /><br />I must disagree with your comment to #824. While it's nice to allow your children to stay with you while they're working full time, keep 100% of their income for themselves, being "adults"...hmmm, are you really doing them any favors by letting them live off you? <br /><br />Is your *child* saving their income to buy a home or using it to pay off college loans? Does he pay room and board? Pay for her own groceries, help with any bills?<br />OR did JR buy a new car, does she spend her $$$ on new cloths to keep up with the latest trends or purchase every new electronic gadget released on the market? Are these *children* learning anything about money management? I know people, friends and relatives, that lived and still live w/ their parents in their 20's and 30's--IMHO, they don't have a clue about what it takes to keep a house, a budget or save money.<br /><br />And people give me grief for breastfeeding my 14 month old--saying I'm going to have to let him grow up and be independant. The funny thing is these parents that make comments to me, still have a 23, 22 and 19 y/o living at home. Who needs to let their kids be indepentant?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-61980035660989126702006-09-29T10:58:00.000-04:002006-09-29T10:58:00.000-04:00Somehow, when you leave a comment(s) under yr +rea...Somehow, when you leave a comment(s) under yr +real+ name, I think it offers more credibility to the advice. I understand why the confessions are anonymous, but I lend a more empathetic ear to those who sign their (comment) posts. I have commented before, several times, but always as "anon." It's a little more frightening to speak as myself, but I'll try... (Rapid heartbeat ensues)...<br /><br />821- She's old. She won't live forever. Bite the bullet. I am somewhat of a "magical thinker" (that's a real school of thought) Magical thinkers believe that when you give something away, you "get" something back thrice fold. In your situation, it's just pretending. Sometimes when I pretend, the feelings become valid. Does that make sense?<br /><br />822- I have to agree w/ the others. He would likely love the return action. No buts about it:)<br /><br />824- I understand the sentiment. There are definitely times to cut the apron strings and get a life. However, imo, this generation is smarter than we. They +know+ a good thang:) Why not live w/ Mom and Dad (or the blended Step Mom/Dad)? It's a free meal! I was desperate to leave! So, as soon as I could, I was outtie!! And, I left June and Ward Cleaver's abode, or a damn close facsimile! What was wrong w/ me? LOL. If I had hung about for 5-10 years, I would be one rich bitch by now! Good Luck to you. My kids are 24 and 23. The 24 year old comes and visits every chance he gets! ) Graduated college, and now is in a post grad program, but still!! LOL, I took every "break" I had to spend money on friends and me! Nottttt hanging around w/ June and Ward!! The 23 year old is gainfully employed and lives with us. I can't say that I blame her! Who wouldn’t want to pocket 100% of his/her salary? Smart cookies, this generation.<br /><br />825 (and Anonymous 6.26 PM) The grass may seem greener in the other pasture, but ya know what? Those cows still take dumps and hold their owners still hold their remotes staring mindlessly from their death chairs (the recliners)<br /><br />826 Men are not made for Hallmark moments. That's why women were created. Tell yr girlfriend. She knows more and understands better anyhoo.<br /><br />828 Marriage is a vow. There is nothing more important than family. Nothing. Make a list of what's important to you. Strike anything off the list that is selfish.<br /><br />____________<br /><br />That's it. My heart is still pumping. I want to conclude by saying that I wish I had a perfect life as the above indicates! LOL. I won't list my grievances, but I will try to apply what I wrote to my own "confessions."<br /><br />Thx to the many who share. I love reading this site, as do we all, eh? I often save it for my last "daily" interweb click. The best for last:)<br /><br />SLZoemonsterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17877620156823500528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-24031425836096507652006-09-29T07:37:00.000-04:002006-09-29T07:37:00.000-04:00# 825
I could have wrote that. I think about "him...# 825<br /><br />I could have wrote that. I think about "him" most every day, and I know he does the same of me. We see each other about 5 times a month and it's just not enough. He's living with someone & they just had a baby, I'm married with 2 kids, but if we could get away with it, we'd be together. The kids are the only thing that keeps me in my marriage. I do love my husband.....I just love "him" more.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-58591615133099945042006-09-28T20:39:00.000-04:002006-09-28T20:39:00.000-04:00#829 -i am so with you on that deal. Fucking drunk...#829 -i am so with you on that deal. Fucking drunks -Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-10472155519148546172006-09-28T19:07:00.000-04:002006-09-28T19:07:00.000-04:00#825 and the others
Me too -- and I am shocked at...#825 and the others<br /><br />Me too -- and I am shocked at the number of people in this position, only I can't say but "I love my husband too much to do anything," because I don't and I would in a heartbeat, I just wonder if he would too...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-47598002923546110682006-09-28T18:58:00.000-04:002006-09-28T18:58:00.000-04:00#825 You're not alone. I don't ever want to lay ...#825 You're not alone. I don't ever want to lay eyes on "him" because if I do I'll lay my hands all over "him".Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-22360749594540842912006-09-28T18:48:00.000-04:002006-09-28T18:48:00.000-04:00I have one of those men in my thoughts. He's marri...I have one of those men in my thoughts. He's married, I'm married..but when I hear his voice on the phone, or get an email from him, I immediately think "What if he had been with me?" I know he feels the same way.<br /><br />What would life have been like with him? I don't know, and doubt I will ever know. Maybe next lifetime.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-76316746018311589022006-09-28T18:26:00.000-04:002006-09-28T18:26:00.000-04:00#825 & 1:18...me too. Exactly.
Why is he in my t...#825 & 1:18...me too. Exactly.<br /><br />Why is he in my thoughts every single day?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-89997643468989015782006-09-28T16:34:00.000-04:002006-09-28T16:34:00.000-04:00Massaging a man's prostate ( inside his anus) duri...Massaging a man's prostate ( inside his anus) during oral can be one of the most exciting things a guy can get...and once they do, I think they can't resist. You can wear a latex glove, and use lube if you are hesitant about using your bare fingers. But, anal play can be a really great addition to sex...you just have to communicate and make sure that it feels good for BOTH people.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-39184431448253532242006-09-28T16:29:00.000-04:002006-09-28T16:29:00.000-04:00I understand 825. I completely understand. The "hi...I understand 825. I completely understand. The "him" in my life actually called last week and I told him no. I don't know what came over me, most likely love of my children and perhaps even love of my husband. I immediatly regreted telling him no after I hung up but I didn't call back.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-26693369325274032202006-09-28T16:26:00.000-04:002006-09-28T16:26:00.000-04:00# 822 - I gotta go with he girls on this one. A l...# 822 - I gotta go with he girls on this one. A lot of straight men love anal play. My ex could not believe it when I told him that I hated it. On the bright side, unless you have told him how you feel, he probably thinks he is doing smething really nice for you. Just tell him how you feel. Don't threaten to do anything you don't really want to do because it might backfire (he he backfire)on you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-31132042113687174922006-09-28T15:44:00.000-04:002006-09-28T15:44:00.000-04:00#822 Actually, your husband would probably like yo...#822 Actually, your husband would probably like you to stick your finger in his butthole while you're giving him a blowjob. He is probably trying to tell you without actually saying it. Just think about it: Most people touch, lick, bite, caress, and/or etc. their partner the way they would actually like to be touched, licked, bit, caressed, and/or etc.<br /><br />It might just be what he's been begging for all along!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-72178551999878232612006-09-28T15:25:00.000-04:002006-09-28T15:25:00.000-04:00#821 - I understand. My MIL has been living with ...#821 - I understand. My MIL has been living with my middle SIL and providing childcare for the kids for the past 6 months. When the youngest SIL had hers, she took care of her daughter for several months. We got a week when our son was born then 2 weeks when I returned to work. She was supposed to visit us in January. Then she was supposed to visit this month. Now one of our nieces is due to have a baby, so guess where Grandma will be.<br /><br />Whenever we visit, inevitably at least one of the other grandkids is there, so our son gets no one-on-one time with her. She complains that our son hardly knows her. I wonder why.<br /><br />I hope my son never realizes how much more attention the other grandkids get.selzachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11539417220317922790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-91646482808947361162006-09-28T14:24:00.000-04:002006-09-28T14:24:00.000-04:00#821- I completely understand what you're saying.#821- I completely understand what you're saying.Dianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13754249936855622982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-5650752892368925682006-09-28T14:15:00.000-04:002006-09-28T14:15:00.000-04:00822
I agree tell him, BUT
he probably wants you to...822<br />I agree tell him, BUT<br />he probably wants you to do it to him. That is why he does it to you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-48941097906858409462006-09-28T13:19:00.000-04:002006-09-28T13:19:00.000-04:00822, tell him. Tell him in those exact words, tell...822, tell him. Tell him in those exact words, tell him before the next time you have sex. That's all you have to do. He won't know if you don't.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-16639237645760671932006-09-28T13:18:00.000-04:002006-09-28T13:18:00.000-04:00#825
Me too. oh God, me too!!!! I love my husband...#825<br /><br />Me too. oh God, me too!!!! I love my husband so damned much but yes, most days I miss "him". I will never leave for "him" - ever - but if I'm ever alone and had a chance again, I'd never waste it again. <br /><br />But then, they say that some of God's greatest gifts are unanswered prayers ~ I've got it really good and you have to think ~ isn't this where I was supposed to be? The road not taken, and all that......<br /><br />but yes, I understand, I really really really do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com