tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post5957875765218698456..comments2023-08-25T09:21:25.015-04:00Comments on True Wife Confessions: True Wife Confessions 238 - The year the Goths crossed the DanubeDawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-73928160349157710252008-02-25T19:58:00.000-05:002008-02-25T19:58:00.000-05:00What happened to Saturday Sexchat?What happened to Saturday Sexchat?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-46083821556508625892008-02-25T15:49:00.000-05:002008-02-25T15:49:00.000-05:00aww 2380 how nice!aww 2380 how nice!fragrance loverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01422869815810741065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-66074559170697187832008-02-24T13:14:00.000-05:002008-02-24T13:14:00.000-05:00I agree. 2379, why the hell do you care what she ...I agree. 2379, why the hell do you care what she wears? Do your job and let her do hers and MYOB.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-45278516289456798702008-02-23T15:54:00.000-05:002008-02-23T15:54:00.000-05:00#2379 -- reading what you wrote made me flash back...#2379 -- reading what you wrote made me flash back to seventh grade, when a group of girls made me miserable for daring to wear the same sweater two days in a row. It was a cruel time, and it has traumatized me ever since. Please do not fall prey to such girl on girl crime, ok? It's petty bullshit, and surely beyond a grown woman like yourself?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-52455221653815480662008-02-22T17:42:00.000-05:002008-02-22T17:42:00.000-05:002371:I've been in your shoes, I was in love with a...2371:<BR/><BR/>I've been in your shoes, I was in love with a man that couldn't fulfil my needs for affection and conversation and genuine emotion-- and I left him. It was the hardest thing I've ever had to do, but it was by far the best thing I've ever done in my life.<BR/><BR/>If you aren't getting your needs met now by this person, you will NEVER get your needs met by them. <BR/><BR/>He told you himself: that's not the way he is. Get over him already. <BR/><BR/>If he isn't giving you what you need, you do yourself no favors by staying with him. And I know what it's like to be absolutely in love with someone, to want to have their babies, to want to grow old with them, even though they're not respecting you or giving you what you need to be happy with a partner.<BR/><BR/>You have to truly go after what you want, and not settle for love without passion. <BR/><BR/>Some advice someone gave me when I was experiencing my own pain upon breaking up with my own unfulfilling partner:<BR/><BR/>"You love him, but he cannot fulfill your deepest desires and life dreams. <BR/><BR/>You love him, but he is not the one for you. <BR/><BR/>You love him, but you realize that the best way to love him is to let him go."<BR/><BR/>If meeting your needs is not something he can do easily, and if doing so is not high enough on his priority list to make him at least make an effort, then he is NOT WORTH YOUR EFFORT OR YOUR LOVE.<BR/><BR/>Love is NOT ENOUGH. Compatability and compassion are worth more than any love you may have for someone.<BR/><BR/>But you do what works for you. Enjoy.omnia_vincit_amorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17027778928923110846noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-90065975474918393892008-02-22T10:16:00.000-05:002008-02-22T10:16:00.000-05:002371Please accept my apology. I did not read the ...2371<BR/><BR/>Please accept my apology. I did not read the rest of your reply to me because I realized, a little too late obviously, that you do not owe ME an explanation for your feelings or your confession.<BR/><BR/>I truly am sorry, and am definitely not looking to be the next "D." I will word my comments more carefully next time.sufficiently coldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11858318572914831678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-80880077054848938902008-02-21T19:41:00.000-05:002008-02-21T19:41:00.000-05:00sufficently cold, this is 2371...I thought this wa...sufficently cold, this is 2371...<BR/><BR/>I thought this was a site to confess issues, or problems. not attack people....<BR/><BR/>I DO love him. He makes it very hard though. I have stuck by him, and done any and everything I could to make him happy. I moved across the country for him. He is a kind hearted, funny and very smart person. But he is COLD. He doesnt like to kiss. He doesnt like to have sex if he as to put forth any effort. I guess he is just lazy. And he refuses to talk about any issue. I take good care of myself, I'm young, a good person and I have a lot to offer. I know I deserve to have someone that cannot keep their hands off of me, and want to do things for me, and really try and want to make me happy. But it is beyond difficult to imagine myself just walking away from where I am now. I love him for reasons other than sex, and kissing. But sex and kissing and affection are things that everyone wants and needs. So I am torn. I love him, but I need attention! I love him enough to want to stay with him, but when a wonderful man pays me attention, it is kind of hard to ignore it, when ive been starved for it for so long. Getting up and leaving is much easier said than done. Anyone who says they would, or could do it, and wouldnt think twice-i will bet that you havent been in that position. You are with a good man or woman and have never really had to sit and think about it in all reality. As sad as it is, when you still love someone, and have problems, sometimes cheating seems like the easiest thing to do.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-16195198115883236432008-02-20T22:43:00.000-05:002008-02-20T22:43:00.000-05:00#2377, #2378, #2380, #2375,It is wonderful to hear...#2377, #2378, #2380, #2375,<BR/>It is wonderful to hear how much you admire your significant others.<BR/>I hope they occasionally get to hear it as well.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-42657778792849031722008-02-19T17:05:00.000-05:002008-02-19T17:05:00.000-05:002:32Thanks. I think I will ~ 23732:32<BR/>Thanks. I think I will ~ 2373Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-7200971528704039752008-02-19T14:32:00.000-05:002008-02-19T14:32:00.000-05:00To number 2373: To hell with the "card and candy....To number 2373: To hell with the "card and candy." If I were you, I'd get myself something really good for Valentine's Day, my birthday, Christmas, etc. My husband never used to buy me anything either, so I started getting myself REALLY good stuff for holiday gifts -- "just like he instructed." Like living room furniture and big ticket items. (Yes, we can afford them. It's not like I'm bankrupting him.) But at some point, he figured out that it would be a LOT cheaper to just be a little bit thoughtful. <BR/><BR/>But, you know, some people are just REALLY AWFUL at gift-giving. My DH once got me some tea bags and Jean Nate bath spray for my birthday. I felt like an old person in a nursing home. I mean, really, Jean Nate? I've kind of accepted that he's lousy at gift-giving, but he's really great at landscaping. So now I usually just tell him how I'd like him to commemorate each occasion by planting someething in the yard. Nothing says love like a hydrangea bush. . . <BR/><BR/>But your guy sounds like he thoughtless, not gift-giving-challenged. buy yourself something nice. Buy yourself two of whatever it is. Oh, and don't waste your money getting him stuff either. People who don't enjoy giving gifts usually don't really like receiving them either.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-79914694581541917302008-02-19T14:18:00.000-05:002008-02-19T14:18:00.000-05:002371There are men dealing with women like that too...2371<BR/>There are men dealing with women like that too. Not necessarily being treated badly, as in my case, just a complete lack of desire. Why do people want in a monogamous relationship, yet have no desire to meet the needs of their partner? I can understand losing it, but why maintain the demand that the other still live up to their end of the agreement? Why do they think laying there is good enough? "sufficiently cold" hasn't walked a mile in your shoes, so she cannot relate. I say, FIND A NICE RIDE AND PUT THE PETAL TO THE METAL!<BR/>Thanks. I feel better.<BR/>2372 -<BR/>Nobody should feel fear in their own world. If it exists in yours, you should not be there.<BR/>2377 -<BR/>Yours brought a smile, thanks.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-47683589761985958912008-02-19T09:15:00.000-05:002008-02-19T09:15:00.000-05:002371i am sorry but this makes zero sense to me, ju...2371<BR/><BR/>i am sorry but this makes zero sense to me, just like any confession that has, "You treat me like_________, and you never__________, so I am going to cheat on you because I love you," and that means i can't get out and make things better for myself and probably you as well.<BR/><BR/>If you love him you wouldn't cheat on him, no matter what, you would either leave him and THEN find the person who will give you what you need, or you would talk more about the issues. And honestly if he doesn't respond to talking to you, if he expresses no interest in making things better, then how in all honesty can you say you love him?sufficiently coldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11858318572914831678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-89361623769595572032008-02-19T00:23:00.000-05:002008-02-19T00:23:00.000-05:00#2371I hear ya! Going through something similar. ...#2371<BR/>I hear ya! Going through something similar. I know how difficult it is to live that way too. You aren't the only one dealing with a man like that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com