tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post5052160919875974580..comments2023-08-25T09:21:25.015-04:00Comments on True Wife Confessions: True Wife Confessions 191 - not a lucky number for airplane flightsDawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-20377704615324075272007-06-22T11:13:00.000-04:002007-06-22T11:13:00.000-04:00Cat pee contains ammonia. Bleach an ammonia make ...Cat pee contains ammonia. Bleach an ammonia make dangerous fumes when they are mixed together. Not a good idea. <BR/><BR/>"Another hazard is the formation of acrid chloramine fumes when hypochlorite bleach comes into contact with ammonia or urine or hydrogen peroxide, which, though not nearly as dangerous as chlorine, can cause severe respiratory distress"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-56755238224292814352007-06-17T10:01:00.000-04:002007-06-17T10:01:00.000-04:001908...Good luck with that. I was in your same exa...1908...Good luck with that. I was in your same exact place 3 months ago. Last night I spent the evening with my Husband and my co-worker at a work function and all I wanted to do was rip my co-workers clothes off....just like I did in the motel room last week.<BR/><BR/>My sweet loving husband thinks my co-worker is such a great guy too and my life is hell now.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-91828518903652671882007-06-16T09:02:00.000-04:002007-06-16T09:02:00.000-04:0012:44 - I don't see how commenting on cleanliness ...12:44 - I don't see how commenting on cleanliness makes a person shallow or stupid.<BR/><BR/>The original poster only drew so much attention because her post implies that it's the cats' fault that it pisses on the floor.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-34866768869804627142007-06-15T19:59:00.000-04:002007-06-15T19:59:00.000-04:00Hey 12:44? Why do you care? And who are you to cal...Hey 12:44? Why do you care? And who are you to call anybody a shallow ass bitch or a stupid whore? You need a big bar of soap, young man -- and I ain't sticking that only in your craw.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-65955062703123177952007-06-15T12:44:00.000-04:002007-06-15T12:44:00.000-04:00Why do you shallow ass bitches care so much about ...Why do you shallow ass bitches care so much about the 1910 cat post?? stupid whoresAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-24974894119936953542007-06-15T11:50:00.000-04:002007-06-15T11:50:00.000-04:001910: ITA with 10:10 - bleach is definately not th...1910: ITA with 10:10 - bleach is definately not the best choice. Pet stores have enzymatic cleaners - I use one that's called Nature's miracle or remedy or something. It works wonders. And scoop the box once a day! I have to admit I'm not the best at cleaning my cats' boxes either, but it's not their fault when I drop the ball and they pee outside the box. I wouldn't enter a bathroom I couldn't walk into without stepping in feces or urine, I can't imagine a cat would either. It's a 5 minute task that keeps the cat happy and the house clean. It's totally worth it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-90548848455500430602007-06-15T10:40:00.000-04:002007-06-15T10:40:00.000-04:002:59 pm, if your clean house contains a box of two...2:59 pm, if your clean house contains a box of two-week-old shit, it's not clean.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-31447931390061758842007-06-14T14:59:00.000-04:002007-06-14T14:59:00.000-04:001910-I keep my house not just tidy, but clean. Th...1910-I keep my house not just tidy, but clean. The one area I don't is the cat's litter box. She's used to it. I change it once every two weeks with no scooping in between. I use Tidy Cat for Multiple Cats and even though it only gets changed twice a month it never smells. That's some good stuff.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-86034020428090364472007-06-13T16:46:00.000-04:002007-06-13T16:46:00.000-04:00Confession #1909 - I feel your anguish. I am havin...Confession #1909 - I feel your anguish. I am having the same problem. I am so in love, but I can't manage to get him to think about anything other than jobs and money. We're not doing that bad, in fact we're doing quite well and all he can do is complain. I miss sex, I miss fun, and I miss him.Nix Musehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11892396251018846640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-68250743819646882402007-06-13T11:14:00.000-04:002007-06-13T11:14:00.000-04:00HAHAHAHA! Out of all of the posts, the cat is the...HAHAHAHA! Out of all of the posts, the cat is the one getting the most attention.<BR/><BR/>Nice.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-90023567857300114252007-06-13T10:10:00.000-04:002007-06-13T10:10:00.000-04:00Hey, I feel your pain; we have 10 cats...6 of whic...Hey, I feel your pain; we have 10 cats...6 of which I'd get rid of in a heartbeat, if DH wasn't so "attached." Whatever. Anyway, it's extremely dangerous to mix bleach with ammonia (cat pee). The fumes could kill you -- literally.<BR/><BR/>That's all. Good luck.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-44885611201983717672007-06-13T06:34:00.000-04:002007-06-13T06:34:00.000-04:00If #1910 had posted something like, "God, I'm so o...If #1910 had posted something like, "God, I'm so overwhelmed. I work hard to raise my kids, and I do a good job, but I have to let everything else go. Including the cat's litter box. Which is why she pisses on the floor, poor thing, and I have to clean it up - more work for me," I wouldn't have responded with criticism. A suggestion for a self-cleaning litterbox, sure, but not criticism. If she had posted, "I clean the litterbox twice a day, and yet the cat still pees everywhere, and I CAN'T TAKE IT ANY MORE," I would have had a lot of sympathy for #1910.<BR/><BR/>She didn't do that. Instead, she talked about how much she hates the "fucking" cat...for doing nothing more than not wanting to use a disgusting, uncleaned litterbox. The cat isn't at fault here - the cat is showing highly normal behavior for a feline by refusing to use a dirty litterbox. Have you ever smelled a dirty litterbox? As humans, our sense of smell is rather limited compared to that of a cat, so if it smells awful to us, how terrible does it smell to them?<BR/><BR/>1910 needs to either find a new home for the cat or take steps to ensure that the litterbox is cleaned on a regular basis - get the kids to clean the litterbox (which I was doing at what, age 7?) or get a self-cleaning litterbox. We have people posting all the time on this board with deep, intractable problems. Obviously, the board should be open for people whose problems aren't deep and intractable, but when someone expresses anger at someone or something else simply for having a perfectly logical reaction to the poster's behavior, the poster is going to get criticism.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-34787967057172584132007-06-12T14:34:00.000-04:002007-06-12T14:34:00.000-04:00You're welcome. Good luck!You're welcome. Good luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-85996991996861552542007-06-12T11:41:00.000-04:002007-06-12T11:41:00.000-04:00Anon 6:56, thanks for your perspective, I feel mor...Anon 6:56, thanks for your perspective, I feel more at ease. You're appreciated!!! :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-80016495396999762762007-06-12T10:40:00.000-04:002007-06-12T10:40:00.000-04:001910: I hate cleaning too. I am a tidier.. I have ...1910: I hate cleaning too. I am a tidier.. I have gotten better since we have moved but at my old house, the top of the fridge had to be scraped because of the cat hair and old grease! lol.<BR/>People dont understand me either!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-19768675042640144042007-06-12T10:33:00.000-04:002007-06-12T10:33:00.000-04:00I hate to say this and dont want to be negative to...I hate to say this and dont want to be negative to commenters, but it always amazes me the outcry a person will get for something like not cleaning out a litter box...you will get more negative feedback over something that trivial than you will over PEOPLE with real problems...my theory, cats are cats...people are people and deserve so much more importance to be placed on them (NO FOLKS, IM NOT TALKING ABOUT ABUSED ANIMALS....not keeping a litter box clean enough is not abuse!!)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-956438174537734162007-06-12T08:16:00.000-04:002007-06-12T08:16:00.000-04:00I have a neighbor who NEVER cleans her THREE cats'...I have a neighbor who NEVER cleans her THREE cats' litterboxes (only 2 boxes for 3 cats.) And she is, in general, not a clean person. I always chuckle when she tells me that she invited a guy over that she has been going out with and then never hears from the guy again. <BR/><BR/>I just want to shout, "Who - aside from you, obviously - likes or is immune to the smell of cat shit?" I'm definitely not. And I hate going to her house as well.<BR/><BR/>If you're not going to take the responsibility to clean up after pets, then don't have pets. They are optional.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-32358645537312542192007-06-12T05:42:00.000-04:002007-06-12T05:42:00.000-04:00#1910: Open your back door. I used to have cats be...#1910: Open your back door. I used to have cats before i moved out of my mums and we never had a cat tray. They always went out and did what cats do.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-26227097893290524382007-06-11T23:29:00.000-04:002007-06-11T23:29:00.000-04:00#1910: There are self-cleaning litterboxes out the...#1910: There are self-cleaning litterboxes out there; I have one. Pick out one you like and buy it. Yes, they're not cheap, but your cat - a dependent creature - depends on you to provide a clean litterbox for her, and you're falling down on the job. Either that, or farm the job out to someone more reliable. Would you like to use a bathroom smelling of ammonia and feces? Guess what - neither does your cat! Shape up now before the poor thing stops using the litterbox altogether, and stop swearing at your cat for having a very natural reaction to your thoughtlessness.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-53058874860373767022007-06-11T18:56:00.000-04:002007-06-11T18:56:00.000-04:001906: you say in your post that you are in your 2...1906: you say in your post that you are in your 20's. I think this directly reflects your thoughts on children. It's okay to love your neices and nephews and I can assure you, that when and IF you chose to have children, you will realize that they are two different bonds. you already have a motherly instinct in you clearly. Otherwise you probably wouldn't be so attached to these kids. You have time to think about having your own children. You are still very young.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-382113953174348512007-06-11T18:38:00.000-04:002007-06-11T18:38:00.000-04:00#1910 - If you're not going to clean your house th...#1910 - If you're not going to clean your house then why bother picking up? A messy house is better than a dirty one. Kudos for neglecting an animal too. How hard is it to scoop out a litter box every couple of days. So sad.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-71620680856649497642007-06-11T15:30:00.000-04:002007-06-11T15:30:00.000-04:00#1909 - I am that old fart...thanks for making me ...#1909 - I am that old fart...thanks for making me open my eyes before my husband wrote this same letter to me. <BR/><BR/>#1910 - My cat uses the bath tub. We clean it out several times a week and he still would rather use the tub.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-58620712408845491212007-06-11T14:21:00.000-04:002007-06-11T14:21:00.000-04:00#1910 Clean the cats' litter box for crying out lo...#1910 Clean the cats' litter box for crying out loud. How long does it really take? I have 3 cats and I scoop multiple times a day. Stop being so lazy, that's gross.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-76071537403934299612007-06-11T13:40:00.000-04:002007-06-11T13:40:00.000-04:001906 - Loose the bond? Why would you have to loos...1906 - Loose the bond? Why would you have to loose (or did you mean lose?) the bond? We don't come with a limit on the number of close, rewarding, joyful relationships we can have within a family or elsewhere. Having your own kids will provide more bonds, unique and separate from existing ones. You don't have to lose anything. Does a parent love the 3rd child more than the 1st, or worry about the bond they have with the second before having a third? Any parent who loves their children will tell you that this kind of thinking is nonsense.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-75875763169835215862007-06-11T12:36:00.000-04:002007-06-11T12:36:00.000-04:00#1910: I used to have a cat that was just as picky...#1910: I used to have a cat that was just as picky. I had to clean the litter box IMMEDIATELY after he peed or he wouldn't go back in again, it was so frustrating.<BR/><BR/>My suggestion...buy a second litter box and put it next to the first one.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com