tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post4873089225948424235..comments2023-08-25T09:21:25.015-04:00Comments on True Wife Confessions: True Wife Confession 161 PalindromeDawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-67800422314206019862007-06-02T08:46:00.000-04:002007-06-02T08:46:00.000-04:00I left a decent 13 year relationship to marry you ...I left a decent 13 year relationship to marry you because you pretended to be everything I wanted but it was a lie. For the last 4 years I constantly think of and dream of the love I left you for and hating myself for giving that up for you. Now I have an opportunity to reclaim my old life with him and don't know how to tell you. I know you are happy in our marriage but I am not. I don't want to hurt you but I see no other choice. I'm sorry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-38152834689822407082007-03-06T11:06:00.000-05:002007-03-06T11:06:00.000-05:00We could truly be married to the same man..except ...We could truly be married to the same man..except I've been in my relationship/marriage for over 12 years. He's left me for the 3d time in a year for a woman he's been messing with at work who was married too. They'd meet at local motels, parks. I KNEW it was going on, but he denied denied denied. She got her husband out of the house last year so now mine is living with her. But that's okay. It won't work w/them. They both know too well what the other is capable of. First time somebody's late from work or can't be found, the seed of doubt will sprout. We're in a mixed race marriage and she is of his race. He's become so....weird. His values have changed, his outlook on people in general. And he's not a kid. He's over 40. I'm a good wife. Never cheated or even came close in over 12 years. But now, he's with her. If you can get out now and stay out I HIGHLY recommend it. I was suicidal for 2 months last summer, but this time I feel a little stronger. I keep thinking about the good times (and there were many), but he's so cruel and mean to me now that it feels like abuse. He's physically and emotionally abusive..I've had broken bones and bloody noses...why'd I stay? That's a good question. Only answer I can come up with is STUPID. I agree with post 1601...get out now. Apparently men like our's are a dime a dozen. Pray for strength and peace. It will come.<BR/>Hugs!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-77639005042266909032007-02-25T07:59:00.000-05:002007-02-25T07:59:00.000-05:00#1604 - You sound like you have a lot of rage and ...#1604 - You sound like you have a lot of rage and that's understandable. Sounds like you've been through a lot. Just so you know, internet porn CAN be an addiction. I counsel sex offenders and of course, I am not saying that your husband is a child molestor or rapist. However, many of my clients did have compulsions that included Internet porn or chatting. It was something they felt compelled to do as much as possible, despite their seemingly happy lives. If he feels like he has an addiction, then get him some help. There are places you can go. Do some research. You may want to get some counseling as well. If you can't handle his addiction, there is no shame in walking away. But only you can decide that. But all that rage you are carrying around is not good for you.Cynthiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16415121912467088667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-4140154077409254922007-02-24T23:49:00.000-05:002007-02-24T23:49:00.000-05:00wow! there's a LOT of hate going on here. I love...wow! there's a LOT of hate going on here. I love it :)*Tanyetta*https://www.blogger.com/profile/14339189484151758472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-34064752675125157312007-02-24T13:27:00.000-05:002007-02-24T13:27:00.000-05:00I feel for every woman who posts a confession here...I feel for every woman who posts a confession here. I have posted a few myself as well as comments. I know what it takes to admit the ugly feelings of anger and hate and frustration. These feelings go beyond mere sadness and unhappiness. It takes courage to admit them. It takes courage to decide whether to stay or go. We all make choices and do what we have to do. For some that means, leaving. For others, it means staying and pursuing a friendship that is outside of your marriage. And either way it's scary. But in the end you have to be responsible for your own life and your own happiness. And trust me, there are good, kind, decent men out there who will love you and appreciate you for just being you. Men who will make you laugh and make you cry because they are so sweet and tender and understanding. I hope all of you find some happiness. But remember, it's a choice.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-88103194125692148632007-02-24T13:12:00.000-05:002007-02-24T13:12:00.000-05:00#1601 - Run. Please run. His controlling craziness...#1601 - Run. Please run. His controlling craziness will only get worse and he will hurt you. <BR/><BR/>#1604 - Please get some help for yourself before it's too late. Your rage is frightening and will make you sick. I hope you find someone to talk you who can help you turn that anger into action. <BR/><BR/>#1605 - Go for counseling or leave. There is no reason to be with someone who makes you feel bad about yourself and puts you down. When you are at the point of crying everyday it's time to make some decisions. You are worth more than that.<BR/><BR/>#1609 - The day will come when you have to decide whether to stay or go. Either way it's not an easy decision. Your husband has a serious problem. Have you asked him if he's gay? Just a thought. <BR/><BR/>#1610 - same for you. You will have to make that decision too. You are in a place where you can't continue.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-30948937546178046452007-02-24T11:46:00.000-05:002007-02-24T11:46:00.000-05:00Oh please, 1606. WAAAHHHH! All he like about me w...Oh please, 1606. WAAAHHHH! All he like about me was my hole. WAAAHHHHH. PUULLEEEAASSSEEE! I could say alot more, but I won't.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-38264327600403756412007-02-23T19:21:00.000-05:002007-02-23T19:21:00.000-05:00#1602 - I hate to downplay the content of what you...#1602 - I hate to downplay the content of what you wrote, but the <I>way</I> you said it was so poetic. You sound like a smart woman, so I'm sure you'll figure out what's best for you. <BR/><BR/>#1606 - We all make mistakes. Despite how some of the women on here bash everyone, I think it's hopeful that you have the courage to admit it and apologize. <BR/><BR/>I cry for some of the hopeless, trapped confessions here, knowing it is not as easy as leaving or staying. May all of you have some real love in your lives.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-36793503268308884382007-02-22T15:03:00.000-05:002007-02-22T15:03:00.000-05:00YIKES! There's a whole lotta HATIN' going on toda...YIKES! There's a whole lotta HATIN' going on today.<BR/><BR/><BR/>I hope all of you ladies can get out of your relationships if you truly are this miserable. It will only ruin you in the end.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-70130520585570125052007-02-22T11:53:00.000-05:002007-02-22T11:53:00.000-05:001601: GET OUT NOW. He's showing ALL the signs of a...1601: GET OUT NOW. He's showing ALL the signs of an abuser: charming until he has you, intensely controlling once he does - *don't* let him isolate you. GO. PLEASE.<BR/><BR/>1602: We must be seeing clones - my man is the same - wonderful until his alcohol intake hits a certain threshold, then he's exactly the same - not making sense, lashing out. Remember: "People don't *get* angry when they drink. Angry people drink." It's not you, it's him - he needs help. Be careful.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com