tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post4369377412492831053..comments2023-08-25T09:21:25.015-04:00Comments on True Wife Confessions: True Wife Confessions 155 minutes it takes my dryer to dry anythingDawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-33017350631119762902007-02-08T16:54:00.000-05:002007-02-08T16:54:00.000-05:00#1541 - kudos to you for recognizing the problem a...#1541 - kudos to you for recognizing the problem and trying to resolve it. <BR/><BR/>#1542 - keep talking - maybe your husband will listen. Most men I know don't like to admit to or talk about sexual problems. Keep trying. I hope he listens.<BR/><BR/>#1547 - seems so simple, doesn't it? To just be wanted and longed for? At the end of they day I just want someone to put their arms around me and be close to me like men and women are supposed to be close. The need for attention and the utter lack of it drives me to big fits of uncontrollable tears sometimes. I hope you find what you are looking for.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-8543140838805607912007-02-08T16:19:00.000-05:002007-02-08T16:19:00.000-05:001541: After seeing myself push my husbands buttons...1541: After seeing myself push my husbands buttons, fighting with him to the point of violence, I realized that I had to make a change if I wanted to make our marriage last. I realized just how much I loved him and how my behavior was bringing him down. Once I made that decision our life together has been much more peaceful, more loving. Good for you for realizing what you were doing. I hope you have a wonderful life together!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-49129613209889073272007-02-08T14:50:00.000-05:002007-02-08T14:50:00.000-05:001545- good for you for deciding to take back your...1545- good for you for deciding to take back your power. Don't let the rapist ever have power over you again. You can have the blank slate the second you decide you're worth it -- and you are.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-28400676311816314022007-02-08T14:01:00.000-05:002007-02-08T14:01:00.000-05:00To 1545 and all of those who left kind and encoura...To 1545 and all of those who left kind and encouraging words...THANK YOU! I have been a fan of this site for almost a year now and have confessed once. I need to confess again. But, sometimes us woman can be judgemental and I'm so happy to see positive thoughts. 1545, I only wish you the best. Remain strong and don't worry, when the time is right, a good man will come to you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-44333295119974998382007-02-07T22:29:00.000-05:002007-02-07T22:29:00.000-05:00I am 1545. Thank you for your kind words. I plan o...I am 1545. Thank you for your kind words. I plan on staying in counseling for as long as I need it. I only regret that I didn't go sooner. Recognizing my behavior as harmful and gaining an understanding of why I did it (doesn't make it right though) has left me with a desire to change. I am not ready for another relationship at this time. Thank you again for your kind words. 1:11 - thank you so much. Knowing that it worked out for someone gives me hope for myself.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-8703954984179766132007-02-07T22:28:00.000-05:002007-02-07T22:28:00.000-05:00#1550: I know all about the no-contact rule. My ex...#1550: I know all about the no-contact rule. My ex is a crack addict...a beautiful, witty, intelligent man who happens to be a high-function crack addict...and I finally wised up and decided that I couldn't live with the insanity of his addiction any longer. It's only been a little over a month of no contact for me, but it's so hard. And I know it's hard for him, too, but I see it as you do...he's doing me a favor in the long run. And maybe my silence will allow him to work on his own problems.<BR/><BR/>Stay strong.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-68077726930533216162007-02-07T22:14:00.000-05:002007-02-07T22:14:00.000-05:001545 - PLEASE stay in therapy. PLEASE discuss your...1545 - PLEASE stay in therapy. PLEASE discuss your suicidal thoughts with your counsellor. anon 4:03 is right - it's not just a physical attack, but a mental one. AND IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT. Rape is NOT YOUR FAULT. <BR/><BR/>But hurting other people is hurting you - so you need to be able to change this behaviour, you need to be able to deal with what happened to you. Talk to your counsellor, talk to your family if you can, just KEEP GETTING HELP.<BR/><BR/>anon 1:11 I say with all sincerity GOOD FOR YOU. Let's hope 1545 can find the same comfort and happiness you did. My thoughts and well wishes are with you both.jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03644929017494459806noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-16959628139657131682007-02-07T20:52:00.000-05:002007-02-07T20:52:00.000-05:001545:I'm so sorry you had to, and continue to have...1545:<BR/><BR/>I'm so sorry you had to, and continue to have to, go through that. The way you reacted is not uncommon.<BR/><BR/>I'm glad you're in counseling. Keep your chin up, babe. You are not alone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-71077701381499231842007-02-07T16:03:00.000-05:002007-02-07T16:03:00.000-05:001545:
Sweetie, it's not your fault. You were not...1545:<br /><br />Sweetie, it's not your fault. You were not only raped physically but mentally. Until you can get yourself back, you will chose horrible men and treat other men badly. PLEASE stay in counseling. It will help you! You deserve to have a good life and not let that horrible man take your life away. It will be better.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-65349574635741802622007-02-07T14:22:00.000-05:002007-02-07T14:22:00.000-05:00To 1541: Wow, I could have written that. A big k...To 1541: Wow, I could have written that. A big kudos to you for realizing that you were emasculating your husband. I am currently doing the same thing to my boyfriend of 7 years. <br /><br />I've known for quite awhile that I need to step back and not control every single aspect of his life. But it's been hard to let go. After all, his life is my life and my life is his life. Everything he does affects me in one way or another. So I wanted total control.<br /><br />But seeing your confession in black and white opened my eyes. I now realize that I need to relinquish some control, loosen up, and let my man be himself.<br /><br />Thank you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-84835847075780102722007-02-07T13:11:00.000-05:002007-02-07T13:11:00.000-05:001545: we have a lot in common. I was raped in co...1545: we have a lot in common. I was raped in college and contracted herpes. I was married to 2 different men who treated my badly. I have been depressed, and have considered suicide. I have gone to counseling.<br /><br />The counseling worked for me. Today, I am happily married and am employed as a university professor. Thoughts of suicide no longer enter my mind. So a better life IS possible. Stick with the counseling. You can make it, too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-61255244868100214642007-02-07T09:43:00.000-05:002007-02-07T09:43:00.000-05:00To Confession #1545,
Keep your head up. Please don...To Confession #1545,<br />Keep your head up. Please dont try and kill yourself again. I know you seem alone but your not. Your not a bad person.. you didnt know anything else. I know u didnt really mean to hurt anyone. Focus on yourself and dont worry about your ex. He was hurt to say those things to you. Stay in therapy that is a good idea. Again keep your head up your not alone a lot of women out there make mistakes but most dont tell a soul about them. Your not aloneAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com