tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post3782120568792969477..comments2023-08-25T09:21:25.015-04:00Comments on True Wife Confessions: True Wife Confession 193 rainbow jimmies on my soft serveDawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-70219987072107833622007-12-04T15:39:00.000-05:002007-12-04T15:39:00.000-05:00RhinoceriRhinoceriAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-8180125304363665282007-07-09T08:06:00.000-04:002007-07-09T08:06:00.000-04:001923:You deserve better. You are amazing, powerful...1923:<BR/><BR/>You deserve better. You are amazing, powerful, and beautiful. I can't say that I know how it feels, but I know that it hurts. But you will move on, life will move on. You will find someone else. Someone better. Please remember that your friends and family love you so much, and that it is his loss, not yours.Shellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02860907200379863018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-46886311297941967512007-06-30T01:43:00.000-04:002007-06-30T01:43:00.000-04:00To #1921:I am a good man in a loving relationship ...To #1921:<BR/><BR/>I am a good man in a loving relationship with a beautiful, kind, sweet woman who stayed over 4 years with a man just like the one you described being married to. Personally, I think he's a fuckin' dumbass for mistreating her. He didn't know what he had until he lost her.<BR/><BR/>I give her backrubs, make her tea while she takes a bath, and hand feed fruit to her... She crocheted a blanket for me, made potato bread and muffins for me...<BR/><BR/>I'm so glad I found her and she found me. We will have a wonderful life together. We want children. I will be a good father to our children and do a lot of the dirty work. I am a hard worker.<BR/><BR/>So I guess I'm saying to you that you are still young, I know you will find someone special. You have so much to offer, I know.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-9349501007879213572007-06-29T00:14:00.000-04:002007-06-29T00:14:00.000-04:00#1929-So well put. I'm blessed with a memory as be...#1929-<BR/><BR/>So well put. I'm blessed with a memory as beautiful as that, and can only hope my future holds more of the same. So far, no one, not even my husband, has made me feel that way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-12628162516187155062007-06-28T17:33:00.000-04:002007-06-28T17:33:00.000-04:0012:47- 1922 here. My husband just turned 27, and...12:47- 1922 here. My husband just turned 27, and I am 26 next week. He SHOULD know better. He doesn't drink often. What I think the problem is, is that he has a hard time taking responsibility for his spending habits. I went through a period like that too, and we're recovering from it. Knowing my financial past, and that I take money out of his account for bills, it's probably a little too easy for him to shift the blame to me. But I must say, we have fought and talked about it since I sent this confession, and he has been making an earnest effort to pay closer attention. I REALLY hope that lasts. I'm just glad I insisted on separate accounts when we got married!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-40466619117375310392007-06-27T16:25:00.000-04:002007-06-27T16:25:00.000-04:00Dear 1921:I was married to THAT guy for 12 years. ...Dear 1921:<BR/><BR/>I was married to THAT guy for 12 years. The last two years since our divorce have been incredibly challenging at times, but finally, after 2 years, I met a guy. I'm just an average looking 41-year-old mom, a little dumpy here and there, with 2 great kids. He thinks I'm a rock star, and I think the same of him.<BR/><BR/>Please talk to a doctor and tell him/her what you've been through. I suffered from anxiety/depression the same way, and I didn't think I could ever bear to go through what I went through, but my life is a hundred million times better today than it was on July 5, 2005. Don't give up.Troublehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16553273498093394669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-32876735798488585272007-06-27T13:44:00.000-04:002007-06-27T13:44:00.000-04:001928- I hear ya on that one sister! when mine gets...1928- I hear ya on that one sister! when mine gets mad and goes in the spare bed - i sleep like a baby - with no dick in my back the next morning.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-55127176872321902732007-06-26T12:47:00.000-04:002007-06-26T12:47:00.000-04:001922: How old is your husband? Is he over 25, i.e....1922: How old is your husband? Is he over 25, i.e., old enough to understand the consequences of lack of money, and to think that they aren't cool?<BR/><BR/>If he is, and he's still behaving like that, has he always behaved like that?<BR/><BR/>Sorry for the questions, I'm just not sure how a grown man could tell his wife despite all this evidence that it's HER fault that HE is out of money. If he's not grown, that would explain alot. But if he is grown, I wonder what else is going on. Is he drinking too much?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-62294615548772911942007-06-26T12:44:00.000-04:002007-06-26T12:44:00.000-04:001921: Your post makes me incredibly sad and I don'...1921: Your post makes me incredibly sad and I don't know how to make either of us better. :-(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-46414307805178734422007-06-26T12:02:00.000-04:002007-06-26T12:02:00.000-04:00Yowza. More proof people should NEVER, ever, marr...Yowza. <BR/><BR/>More proof people should NEVER, ever, marry.<BR/><BR/>Never.Nigel St.John Regina Smegmatica Howle-Raineshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08622124746654190503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-17909746653187792682007-06-26T08:47:00.000-04:002007-06-26T08:47:00.000-04:001921: You can change your world around, go to ther...1921: <BR/>You can change your world around, go to therapy (it really help!) change your life style, have a postive mind! You're so young and you can have a long way to go! <BR/>I wish that your doctor tell you that is nothing serious and that you will be okay. <BR/>Make new friends, look around, there LOTS of thing to do, and you will be surprised how things can turn around for good. YOU can be happy too. <BR/>Good luck. <BR/><BR/>1923: <BR/>I am so sorry that it didn't work out for you. Sometimes life it's really unfair, and now youdon't know the reason it happened but soon, you will. and I am sure it's mattter of time that you will find someone that really want you. <BR/>:) <BR/><BR/>1925:<BR/>You should be glad that it's over. Cousing? Disgusting! <BR/><BR/>1930: <BR/>I know how it is to be with a man that doesn't share his thoughts or issues with us. I was with one. At the end I just give up.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-90396201595521366282007-06-26T08:14:00.000-04:002007-06-26T08:14:00.000-04:00OMG Jenner, that's exactly what I thought after re...OMG Jenner, that's exactly what I thought after reading this.<BR/><BR/>I have spent the last 5 mins thinking about all my cousins and there isn't one that I would sleep with (not because they're hideous or anything but just because it turns my tummy)<BR/><BR/>DamnDana - W for Whateverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01028118268752047123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-39242718313483578782007-06-26T02:28:00.000-04:002007-06-26T02:28:00.000-04:001921: Oh honey, I'm so sorry. We all have loser bo...1921: Oh honey, I'm so sorry. We all have loser boyfriends in our lives. Some of us end up married to them. You had the strength to get out - and to get out while you still have your youth but before you got yolked to him through kids. Congratulations! That took a lot of gumption. I know you don't want to believe this, and are problem sneering, "Yeah, what the hell does she know?" at your computer...but I admire you, and hope that you realize that you have many good years left. You can be happy. I promise. You've already lost the 150+ pounds that were your Obligatory Loser SO - it's all downhill from here.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-91203195120881218732007-06-25T23:54:00.000-04:002007-06-25T23:54:00.000-04:001922....I could have written your post. September ...1922....I could have written your post. September will be 2 years since the separation, and 1 year since the finalization of our divorce. I, like you, don't know if I can ever give myself to someone so completely again. I, again like you, won't kill myself, but most days I wish I'd get into a fatal car crash. Thanks for your candor....it's nice to know that I'm not alone!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-61660062455839241572007-06-25T22:22:00.000-04:002007-06-25T22:22:00.000-04:00I meant 1922.I meant 1922.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-88350249595551961092007-06-25T22:20:00.000-04:002007-06-25T22:20:00.000-04:001921 - I had that relationship. He spent all his ...1921 - I had that relationship. He spent all his money on video games, eating out and drinking (without me.) When he went on vacation, he'd call me for money. When I told him no, it was MY fault he was in debt with overdraft fees - even though I told him he couldn't afford the vacation (without me) in the first place.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-58513823095306142682007-06-25T22:19:00.000-04:002007-06-25T22:19:00.000-04:001921 - I am sorry you are going through so much ri...1921 - I am sorry you are going through so much right now. Your life is so much more meaningful than a man. I have been there, it was a few years ago we were together 4 years...I thought I should kill myself.....6 years later I still question how I could be so stupid....my life as is yours is much more meaningful than one silly man. It may not feel that way right now, but give it time. Take care of yourself, do the things you have always wanted to do....build yourself up....you have so much to offer the world if you could just unleash that anger/hurt and use it constructively. be kind to yourself and take care of you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-4916461726714263732007-06-25T21:38:00.000-04:002007-06-25T21:38:00.000-04:00To #1921. You are capable of healing. I know you d...To #1921. You are capable of healing. I know you don't feel like it - when I lost my husband to divorce at 33 under similar sacrifices and circumstances, I thought I was done. Nothing more in life would be good and there was no point. I was wrong. I'm sooo glad you know how selfish suicide is. You have friends and family to think of- I lost all of that when my marriage ended. I'm above average weight and not particularly pretty and I found someone who made me laugh anf feel desirable again. We've since gone our separate ways but I didn't give more than I had to give to the relationship so ending it didn't crush me. Rather, it helped me transition from fatalistic girl to independent woman. You were put on earth for an amazing reason, and you will find it. Keep writing - a journal, a blog, a cautionary tale to other young women - anything. It is great therapy. Best wishes for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-76339447524307758942007-06-25T20:07:00.000-04:002007-06-25T20:07:00.000-04:00Um, what's with all the cousin' lovin here? lolUm, what's with all the cousin' lovin here? loljenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03644929017494459806noreply@blogger.com