tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post2658213692077734013..comments2023-08-25T09:21:25.015-04:00Comments on True Wife Confessions: True Wife Confessions 165 moments of silenceDawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-86791136195019956612007-03-08T20:06:00.000-05:002007-03-08T20:06:00.000-05:001650...Thank you for posting that... I'm trying to...1650...<BR/><BR/>Thank you for posting that... I'm trying to come to grips with the fact that i have a couple things going on outside of "my life"<BR/><BR/>I've dropped the second one of them... the occasional "hi" but we've both come to an understanding that it never happened... <BR/><BR/>Now for the first... i am in the process of telling him that i hate him, his truck, his attitude, and that he smokes. I agree it woulda been different had we tried, back when we met in highschool... but its selfdestructive to even see him now, last time we were together, i pushed him away & just cried...<BR/><BR/>And theres the third... Its easy for me not to be around him, his lesbian gf keeps him on a tight leash, but he seems to think I'm somehow his mistress... i mean the sex was great... amazing, raw & passionate, just the way I like it... and it was f-ing hot that i was cheating on the second one with this one, his friend... but i can't stomach any of it anymore...<BR/><BR/>Thank you for showing me they can be left... and I can keep living... good luck 1650... wish me luck too...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-78996982219438152742007-03-08T10:41:00.000-05:002007-03-08T10:41:00.000-05:001648 - you're causing him to be so reliant on you,...1648 - you're causing him to be so reliant on you, cut the cord honey or he'll be aking you to wipe his ass next.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-7312980693911233892007-03-08T04:08:00.000-05:002007-03-08T04:08:00.000-05:00#1650-- I know that guy. Maybe (hopefully) not the...#1650-- I know that guy. Maybe (hopefully) not the one you're talking about, but I know one just like him. I don't understand why they have to constantly look for reasons and blame others for why their lives suck...when they can just look at themselves and make a few small changes--- frustrating.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-51750641481239734442007-03-08T00:11:00.000-05:002007-03-08T00:11:00.000-05:00I lied to my shrink too....I don't go anymore! Now...I lied to my shrink too....I don't go anymore! Now, I read these posts to make myself feel better about the situation I'm in (or no longer in).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-88467904967093744132007-03-08T00:02:00.000-05:002007-03-08T00:02:00.000-05:00You are supposed to tip the guy who delivers flowe...You are supposed to tip the guy who delivers flowers????? Who knew? I guess I'll have to start carrying singles at all times!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-54836512208130833162007-03-07T22:38:00.000-05:002007-03-07T22:38:00.000-05:001642: I am in that very situation myself. My ex's...1642: I am in that very situation myself. My ex's new wife, who was a friend of ours, giving me that look like she is superior to me. Full of hate and loathing for me because she believes the lies he told her and anyone who would listen. Negating my parenting (although she is 41 and childless) and trying to turn my child against me.<BR/><BR/>I was her. We all were. Believing everything he said about his exes because we loooooved him. Only after we left did we discover the truth. And so will she, one day. In the meantime, I don't know whether to hate her or pity her...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-56030661891559661412007-03-07T21:59:00.000-05:002007-03-07T21:59:00.000-05:00i totally respect all the honesty in these posts! ...i totally respect all the honesty in these posts! WOW!*Tanyetta*https://www.blogger.com/profile/14339189484151758472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-54913130743068403952007-03-07T20:33:00.000-05:002007-03-07T20:33:00.000-05:00To any & all the people who mentioned "walking on ...To any & all the people who mentioned "walking on eggshells" - I've been there - ONCE. Never ever again. If they don't have the balls or self-realization to realize the way they're acting, they are NOT WORTH BEING WITH. YOu are not their shrink, you are not their mother, you do not deserve this, and you should never ever feel like you have to watch what you say and do for fear of setting off these immature tantrums.<BR/><BR/>If they can't or won't realize this, you MUST GET OUT. I know, I know - easier said than done. But it is SO much better when you do.<BR/><BR/>#1646 - I have to ask - why are you still with him? I TOTALLY understand the hurt & anger re: he'd lose weight for HER, but not you. On top of that, if he was having an affair in the first place - emotional, physical, whatever - again, why are you still there?<BR/>You deserve SO much better than that.jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03644929017494459806noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-42103910502879670802007-03-07T16:10:00.000-05:002007-03-07T16:10:00.000-05:001643: I think we are the same person married to th...1643: I think we are the same person married to the same guy...<BR/><BR/>Are you as sad as I am?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-55150506759937954792007-03-07T14:52:00.000-05:002007-03-07T14:52:00.000-05:001649: I can see myself in your husban'd shoes, an...1649: I can see myself in your husban'd shoes, and you in my husband's...he doesn't care at all about the stuff that I care about on TV, the news, etc. It hurts to feel like he's disinterested in the things that interest me and that we have nothing in common after all. Maybe you could at least try to show an interest.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-35805457724877177692007-03-07T13:43:00.000-05:002007-03-07T13:43:00.000-05:001642 - Been there, done that. Have a friend that ...1642 - Been there, done that. Have a friend that is there now and nothing I or anyone says can steer her from her cheating, abusive EX-husband. It's as if she forgot all the reasons she left his sorry ass in the first place.<BR/><BR/>1648 - Oh, hell no.<BR/><BR/>1650 - If the extracurricular is giving you more drama than the primary, yeah, it's past time to give that stuff up.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-15714707876151443542007-03-07T13:35:00.000-05:002007-03-07T13:35:00.000-05:001648: It's because he is so used to you going out...1648: It's because he is so used to you going out of your way that he does that. I know how you feel though, mine does the same thing. It drives me nuts, but also, I know he does it because he just CAN'T make his own damned sandwich. He likes the way I make them.<BR/><BR/>1649: Maybe he just wants to share things with you and maybe he wants you to be with him more? That's why he does that?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-3357055287544198632007-03-07T11:50:00.000-05:002007-03-07T11:50:00.000-05:001642I'm am proud of you for pulling yourself up an...1642<BR/><BR/>I'm am proud of you for pulling yourself up and out and becoming again the woman you always knew you were. It must be tough watching his new girl, knowing what may & probably will happen down the line.<BR/><BR/>I'm not sure how your ex was with the kids, but my only advice (though not asked for) would be that if you are going to stay silent to her, just make sure that the kids wont be harmed by any of it.<BR/><BR/>I wish you the best, stay strong.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com