tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post2273195919304983558..comments2023-08-25T09:21:25.015-04:00Comments on True Wife Confessions: True Wife Confessions 245 No Fuss RecipesDawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-91106640065237847232008-04-18T19:45:00.000-04:002008-04-18T19:45:00.000-04:002449, I can relate! It's such a lonely and painfu...2449, I can relate! It's such a lonely and painful existence!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-20452952284235300602008-04-07T03:20:00.000-04:002008-04-07T03:20:00.000-04:00for 2441, I am not defending your husband for yell...for 2441, I am not defending your husband for yelling at you, but pain really does alter one`s personality and can make someone normally easy going really awful to live with. <BR/><BR/>I know this because I hurt my back this year, and it is finally getting better. <BR/><BR/>It is good you are honest with him. he does need to hear it. He may not realize he is behaving differently.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-33516095325684997992008-04-06T14:21:00.000-04:002008-04-06T14:21:00.000-04:002441 I've always loved a woman who won't or don't ...2441 I've always loved a woman who won't or don't take the oldmans crap. Isn't it funny how they profess how much they love you and then show the real truth and prove it buy calling you names or yelling at you ... give him what he deserves and yell at him as he does you if he calls you names do the same to him soon they take a hint and stop works for me anyway ...best of luck...Larryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06086755362215081746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-61880388502584135402008-04-05T22:04:00.000-04:002008-04-05T22:04:00.000-04:00#2442:You sound as though you're speaking from per...#2442:<BR/><BR/>You sound as though you're speaking from personal experience.<BR/><BR/>If you went into the relationship thinking you'd be top of his list, knowing that he has a child (first of all), then you are the one with unfair expectations. Getting involved with someone who has kids means you won't be top of their list, you'll be expected to help take care of the kids at any cost to yourself-- just as if you had those kids yourself. Once you have kids, you get no time to yourself, that's what you sign up for once kids are in the equation. You feeling hurt or resentful that he needs your help is unfair to him-- as his partner, you're obligated to help him take care of the kids, just as if you had borne the children yourself, you'd expect him to help you no matter what. <BR/><BR/>Your advice is spot on-- either get out or make the best of it.<BR/><BR/>Enjoy.omnia_vincit_amorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17027778928923110846noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-76965818531566783082008-04-04T16:09:00.000-04:002008-04-04T16:09:00.000-04:00#2449I could have posted exactly what you just pos...#2449<BR/><BR/>I could have posted exactly what you just posted. I have a beautiful son that I cherish from this marriage but other then that I feel trapped. I too don't know how to get out. Best wishes to you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-5546158193653469302008-04-04T13:15:00.000-04:002008-04-04T13:15:00.000-04:002449, I can totally relate to your situation. I a...2449, I can totally relate to your situation. I am not in love with my husband and we have a shell of a marriage. It's hard because we *do* coexist, peacefully, for the most part, and we have kids - so one thinks, "Why break up this 'happy' home?" But the thing is, it's not happy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-48184341491842763562008-04-04T06:43:00.000-04:002008-04-04T06:43:00.000-04:00Doesn't it suck that the things that draw us to pe...Doesn't it suck that the things that draw us to people and the things that drive us cracy about people are usually two sides of the same coin?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-44011263070057684792008-04-03T14:22:00.000-04:002008-04-03T14:22:00.000-04:00#2447My husband does the SAME thing! When we firs...#2447<BR/><BR/>My husband does the SAME thing! When we first got together, I thought it was great how he had a story for every occasion and could captivate a roomful of people; now I realize he is always "on" in that way and expects me to be his audience. We went out to dinner last night and I barely got a word in edgewise as he talked and talked and TALKED about himself. I would try to bring up a subject, he would find a way to turn the conversation back to himself. Eventually I quit trying and spent the last half hour just staring blankly at him as he went on and on and the fucknozzle DIDN'T EVEN NOTICE my obvious boredom and irritation.<BR/><BR/>I should have taken notice when he told me the last woman he dated before me was always telling him "Not everything is always about YOU!" Obviously, she clued into this personality flaw a lot more quickly than I did.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-86727894292868794092008-04-03T13:43:00.000-04:002008-04-03T13:43:00.000-04:00#2449May I suggest that you sit down with him and ...#2449<BR/><BR/>May I suggest that you sit down with him and tell him that you want a separation? It would be better to separate now, while you can still remember why you love him - then years from now when all the love is completely gone. If you really do care about him and yourself, you would muster up the courage to do soemthing about this. Either work on it or cut loose - but either way it sounds like it's best for everyone if it's at the very least acknowledged.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-22607467028142636062008-04-03T12:32:00.000-04:002008-04-03T12:32:00.000-04:00#2445: I'm laughing with you and DH! What a great...#2445: I'm laughing with you and DH! What a great story. You guys are someone I'd want to know IRL.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com