tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post2199149866255597695..comments2023-08-25T09:21:25.015-04:00Comments on True Wife Confessions: True Wife Confession 129-LZ Aka The HindenburgDawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-56187244016823770932006-12-13T12:24:00.000-05:002006-12-13T12:24:00.000-05:00#1284- 10.39 here-
It is hard to let the time go b...#1284- 10.39 here-<br />It is hard to let the time go by and to heal. I want you know that you will have these feelings for a while- i still do occasionally. Somedays it takes a serious, conscious EFFORT to push them away. What I felt with the other person was deep and real-however,fleeting- but what i have with my husband is deeper and extremely valuable. <br /><br />I experienced something the other day I wanted to share- I was at my kids' school and saw a mom who I know went through a divorce this summer. I thought of how she might feel if she was dating- how it must feel to go through the emotional roller coaster with new boyfriends/dates? how it must feel to start to like someone, then either be hurt by them or find out you can't really stand them. I saw her and the thought that popped into my head-without warning- was "NOTHING could be better than what I have right now." <br /><br />I need to listen to my trusted friends who encourage me to stay on track with my family- that being with someone else or being alone is only fun for a short time- and I won't be able to get back what I have right now. <br /><br />sorry so long winded... hang in there sweetie- you are not alone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-17588318665307166542006-12-10T09:22:00.000-05:002006-12-10T09:22:00.000-05:00Anonymous at 10.39.
I was the one that wrote that...Anonymous at 10.39.<br /><br />I was the one that wrote that.<br />Thank you so much. I can't tell you how you have helped. I just wish things had been different that's all. I wonder what it would be like. I'm curious and I wish I had "lived" a little when I was younger. I hear my friends talk about different men and wonder what it would be like. I thank you so much. I think I'll continue to fantasise. Lets face it, it's probably better than the real thing anyway. <br /><br />Thanks thanks thanksAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-52827227066583584122006-12-10T00:40:00.000-05:002006-12-10T00:40:00.000-05:00Does 1286 seem familiar to anyone else, or is it b...Does 1286 seem familiar to anyone else, or is it because I wrote it and only remember thinking it?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-54648241876985300562006-12-08T10:39:00.000-05:002006-12-08T10:39:00.000-05:00To #1284- I have been with my one and only for 17 ...To #1284- I have been with my one and only for 17 years. However, I have the same feelings as you. I almost crossed that line, but didn't. It was hot, steamy and the chemistry was intense, but in the end it wasn't worth the risk of losing the love of my life and hurting my babies. I still wonder. I still fantasize... but the price is too high. A good friend of mine has BTDT and her support has been immeasurable. I hope that my support for you will help in some way. In any case, my experience will help me to influence my daughters to explore in life- unlike me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-60283637031166979862006-12-07T18:02:00.000-05:002006-12-07T18:02:00.000-05:00I love the party with champagne and pointy hats! ...I love the party with champagne and pointy hats! AHAHAHAHAH! it's the hats that's got me!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-78948963109356270252006-12-07T10:13:00.000-05:002006-12-07T10:13:00.000-05:00#1289 and 10:36--My husband is this way too. He n...#1289 and 10:36--My husband is this way too. He never ever ever thinks about what to get me. We had a huge fight about it over Mothers Day. I love getting him stuff because I love the idea of finding something that is perfect and THOUGHTFUL for each specific person. A friend of mine gave us a book called The 5 Love Languages (or something close to that--The 5 Languages of Love?) Anyway--it talks about each person having a way that they RECIEVE love. If the other person doesn't express their love that way, you don't feel it--whether they really mean it or not. You have to learn to express love the way your partner recieves it--even if it isn't something that is meaningful to you. One of the "languages" is receiving gifts. It doesn't have to be diamond rings. It can be a note left on the bathroom mirror while you are sleeping. It is just the idea that the person loves you enough to think of you, and express it! The kicker is that you (he) has to be willing to learn it. I've been working on my husband's "language" and I THINK he is working on mine, because there is already something under the tree (I'm just crossing my fingers that it isn't some "free gift with purchase" from something he got at Home Depot--although, the fact that he thought to actually wrap it and put my name on it MIGHT be a step up? We'll see. . .my fingers are crossed.) Sorry for rambling, but if you get a chance, check out the book. If you can get your husband to read it, it might REALLY help. Good luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-19117951642863377782006-12-06T21:23:00.000-05:002006-12-06T21:23:00.000-05:0010:04 -- thanks, it always helps to hear from some...10:04 -- thanks, it always helps to hear from someone who can relate, which is why the comment section helps so much.<br />4:58 -- you're a cunt. Fuck off and get over your own obvious vagina issues. See a Dr. if you stink.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-45952725407691013232006-12-06T17:20:00.000-05:002006-12-06T17:20:00.000-05:00#1284....and the first time you do find out you wi...#1284....and the first time you do find out you will cry and think that your heart is breaking because if you love your husband you will want him to be the one who makes your toes curl and lights you up from the inside out.....life isn't always easy or fair...Robin in NJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14282016026014486655noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-74502454685831058192006-12-06T16:58:00.000-05:002006-12-06T16:58:00.000-05:0010:04, do you hate fish because your organ smells ...10:04, do you hate fish because your organ smells like one?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-37377600996294170692006-12-06T16:19:00.000-05:002006-12-06T16:19:00.000-05:00Look, I am an English professor at a major univers...Look, I am an English professor at a major university, and it never has occured to me ONCE to come on here expecting perfect grammar. When a person is upset and wants to release feelings, I am certain she is not so concerned about spelling, punctuation, and word usage. If I received a letter or essay from a student or in a business setting, I would feel obligated to correct the one communicating to me. But on a confessions board? You must be kidding me! I'm pretty sure that proper grammar is the least of her worries right now.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-53563039003791496932006-12-06T16:08:00.000-05:002006-12-06T16:08:00.000-05:00#1283:
Within THOSE months. Not THEM. Is proper...#1283:<br /><br />Within THOSE months. Not THEM. Is proper grammar really so much to ask?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-21902494703929411412006-12-06T14:27:00.000-05:002006-12-06T14:27:00.000-05:001:16 -- 10:36 here. I know. I love giving him thin...1:16 -- 10:36 here. I know. I love giving him things too. I save presents for him all year, and when I find something I know he'll love, it's a rush. <br /><br />It's just that the scene we went through a couple of days ago made me so freaking miserable that I think it has sucked a lot of the joy out of that process for me. After that scene, I'm afraid that if in three months I find something I know he'll love, I'll flash on the awful cursing, swearing, groaning, whining tantrum he had while clicking on two Amazon links, and I'll feel like crap all over again. And this will happen repeatedly right up to the holidays next year, when he will have another meltdown because getting me something is such a burden.<br /><br />If I remove him from the equation entirely, I'll feel bad for not getting him anything ... but at least I'll be able to enjoy Christmas and presents in some way.<br /><br />I hope. I hope he hasn't poisoned the whole thing for me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-56850991818272740582006-12-06T13:16:00.000-05:002006-12-06T13:16:00.000-05:00to 10:36 anonymous:
The kicker is I WANT to buy hi...to 10:36 anonymous:<br />The kicker is I WANT to buy him stuff. I love the look on his face when he opens something he knows I worked really hard to find just for him. He wants an out-of-print DVD? I call every movie store in a 100 mile radius and google until my fingers fall off. He wants an expensive miter saw that I keep telling him we don't have the money for, so I save every last penny so I can put it under the tree. Is he just lazy? Why doesn't he get excited about finding thoughtful gifts for me?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-2818988531301933912006-12-06T10:36:00.000-05:002006-12-06T10:36:00.000-05:00#1289: WHY ARE THEY LIKE THIS:
He asked if he had...#1289: WHY ARE THEY LIKE THIS:<br /><br />He asked if he had to get me anything for Christmas. "Can't I just take you out to dinner?" I pointed him to my wishlist on Amazon. I sent him an email with links in it; all he had to do was click. Two nights ago I forced him to sit down and purchase something from the list for me online. He complained and cursed the entire time.<br /><br />Next damn Christmas my present to him will be: not having to get me anything for Christmas. Every time I want to buy him something for Christmas, I'll spend the money on myself instead. There will be a lot of presents under the tree. For ME. <br /><br />I offer this idea to you freely, sister to sister, because it makes me feel so good thinking about it. I actually am almost over how awful it felt to hear him groaning and swearing about buying me a present ... that's how powerful this makes me feel.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-47477168306856232562006-12-06T10:04:00.000-05:002006-12-06T10:04:00.000-05:00I'd have killed the fish too.. only I wouldn't hav...I'd have killed the fish too.. only I wouldn't have felt the least bit bad about it. I hate fish.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com