tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post1300159820866436963..comments2023-08-25T09:21:25.015-04:00Comments on True Wife Confessions: It's time to put on my big girl shoes and wade into this...Dawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comBlogger65125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-16466335675240443422007-01-26T09:41:00.000-05:002007-01-26T09:41:00.000-05:00Dawn,
I confessed a coupla weeks ago about nearly ...Dawn,<br />I confessed a coupla weeks ago about nearly 17 years in an unhealthy marraige to my childhood sweetheart...<br /><br />We came from a religious background and at the time I thought marrying him was the thing to do...<br /><br />Many of the comments left seemed to ignore his cheating and abandoning myself and my children...<br /><br />Instead, many focussed on my censoring my post using f*ck and confessing to having anal sex with him while we dated in a misguided teenaged attempt to "stay a virgin"...Some even said they thought my confession was fake or an attempt at being shocking for attention...<br /><br />I took those criticisms in stride...<br /><br />I never dreamed I would ever be able to give voice to the things I felt and had been through...Who could I tell?...<br /><br />Until I found this site, I thought I'd carry those things to my grave...<br /><br />Thank you for giving my secrets an outlet...<br /><br />I felt a load lifted from my heart in the minutes after seeing it posted in black & white...<br /><br />I'm not fully healed, heck I may never be, but I can tell you that I'm certainly much lighter in spirit...<br /><br />Thank You,<br />Confession #1390Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-24025831179812805632007-01-21T10:49:00.000-05:002007-01-21T10:49:00.000-05:00Name-calling isn't nice.
Causing another person ...Name-calling isn't nice. <br />Causing another person pain by helping to destroy their marriage is an awful lot worse.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-54239100641157901702007-01-20T15:07:00.000-05:002007-01-20T15:07:00.000-05:00I respect your honesty not many people can talk so...I respect your honesty not many people can talk so openly about their lives, great reading.Purrhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01830532786632130020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-44411216271351553752007-01-18T21:09:00.000-05:002007-01-18T21:09:00.000-05:00BWAHAHAHAHA... pot meet kettle. oh my so true. tha...BWAHAHAHAHA... pot meet kettle. oh my so true. thanks, 9:01, for the giggle.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-30405712059120741572007-01-18T21:01:00.000-05:002007-01-18T21:01:00.000-05:0011:57:
Pot? Meet kettle.11:57:<br /><br />Pot? Meet kettle.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-68214669416988943332007-01-18T20:54:00.000-05:002007-01-18T20:54:00.000-05:00I gotta agree with 4:25, 11:57. You came here and...I gotta agree with 4:25, 11:57. You came here and posted a very immature and angry comment. Get a grip.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-43561758359833072482007-01-18T16:57:00.000-05:002007-01-18T16:57:00.000-05:00For 4:25pm -
I sound angry and bitter?! LMAO. Wh...For 4:25pm - <br /><br />I sound angry and bitter?! LMAO. What was the first line of your response? "Fuck off 11:57"..uh huh, your childhood called and it wants your mentality back. <br /><br />I'm GLAD the abortion post was posted. Any woman should be allowed to confess to their own private hell to just get it off her chest. I was griping about the women that bashed the poster over the abortion you whiney little shit. WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH "Fuck off". LOLAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-58262762382357465412007-01-18T16:25:00.000-05:002007-01-18T16:25:00.000-05:00Fuck off 11:57! You are the one who sounds angry ...Fuck off 11:57! You are the one who sounds angry and bitter. The abortion post WAS posted asshole! Maybe you should only lecture when you know what the hell you're talking about.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-55311426998881670872007-01-18T11:57:00.000-05:002007-01-18T11:57:00.000-05:00What is it with some of you women?! Do you think y...What is it with some of you women?! Do you think your shit doesn't stink? That you're holier than thou and all should bow to you?! <br /><br />"Dawn deleted my abortion post. WAAAAAAAAAH. That's strike two. WAAAAAAAAAAH." From Dawn's response, it sounded like you bashed this woman for having an abortion. Did you call her a baby killer? Did you tell her she was going to hell? And if so...<br /><br /><br />WHO MADE YOU QUEEN BITCH?! WHO GAVE YOU A RIGHT TO JUDGE?! You self-righteous women make me sick.<br />The women who think that everyone in the world is wrong unless they agree with them will have a wake up call when they get to the pearly gates and is asked, "So why did you think it was Ok to judge another human being?"<br /><br />Good luck in your lives ladies. You're so filled with hate, distain, bitter, and self-loathing that you enjoy making others miserable. Karma will bite you square in your ass and it's too bad I won't be there to witness it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-89804950242920167352007-01-17T19:47:00.000-05:002007-01-17T19:47:00.000-05:00As to the issue of censorship and abortion. My com...As to the issue of censorship and abortion. My comment in that regard was that this website wasn't the place for the "rightness" of abortion.<br /><br />Far from censoring - which would be to remove comments or selectively chose which confessions I felt were appropriate, I view that as setting parameters for a discussion.<br /><br />A persons moral/religious/political beliefs about a right which is currently protected under US law would be, in my opinion, not helpful to the discussion. <br /><br />If people felt I was censoring, then that is unfortunate. I am firmly anti-censor. However, I am not pro-beating a person for what remains a legal right.Dawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-76770482477520604232007-01-17T17:37:00.000-05:002007-01-17T17:37:00.000-05:00Yeah, by even implying that you will control what ...Yeah, by even implying that you will control what people will say is censoring. To me anyways. Actually now people won't get honesty.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-62656005028831452922007-01-17T16:25:00.000-05:002007-01-17T16:25:00.000-05:00This site has already been censored. A ways back ...This site has already been censored. A ways back our comments about abortion were censored. So this would really be strike two.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-2416560054369822902007-01-17T16:23:00.000-05:002007-01-17T16:23:00.000-05:00No 2:10. But you do. Sheesh, talk about viper. ...No 2:10. But you do. Sheesh, talk about viper. You seem like you are probably one of the nasty people. You have some anger issues.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-38341239824935794742007-01-17T15:15:00.000-05:002007-01-17T15:15:00.000-05:00thank you- i have not posted since i was told som...thank you- i have not posted since i was told some not very nice things. <br /><br />i was just wanting a place to vent and feel like i was not alone.<br /><br />i had been on another site until i felt like it was not a supportive healthy site. i hope this site does not end up the same.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-59709219280184914732007-01-17T14:10:00.000-05:002007-01-17T14:10:00.000-05:00did you people actually read dawns post? she said ...did you people actually read dawns post? she said she WOULD NOT CENSOR. would not! shes just asking people to be a bit more respectful of others. is that so darn hard? <br /><br />jesus christ people, GROW UP! you dont have to comment on the confessions that bring out the viper in you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-45134680622323479952007-01-17T12:37:00.000-05:002007-01-17T12:37:00.000-05:00This forum was NEVER lighthearted. That's just co...This forum was NEVER lighthearted. That's just completely untrue. And personally, the rawness and the HONEST comments, bashing or not is what kept me coming back. But like a few others here, I'm considering just deleting this from my favorites. Especially if Dawn is going to start censoring.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-36173446196221059462007-01-17T08:02:00.000-05:002007-01-17T08:02:00.000-05:00Personally, I follow the "if you don't have anythi...Personally, I follow the "if you don't have anything nice to say..." theory. This place is meant to be open for people to confess. They aren't supposed to be bashed for that. Do I condone cheating? No. But you NEVER can know the situation someone is in and you can't judge something if you simply don't have all the facts.<br /><br />We need to stop being so vicious to eachother. This place used to be a lighthearted, supportive forum for us to get things off our chests, but now, people are AFRAID to post because of what may be said to/about them. It would be such a waste to see this place die like that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-38784494595846418382007-01-16T23:51:00.000-05:002007-01-16T23:51:00.000-05:00Actually, yes. I would call whoever was being a h...Actually, yes. I would call whoever was being a homewrecking whore a homewrecking whore. I'm not all about being patronizing. So, yah Dawn, I would.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-36964041560112145212007-01-16T11:45:00.000-05:002007-01-16T11:45:00.000-05:00I am 9:07 and where in my comment did I say I call...I am 9:07 and where in my comment did I say I called anyone a whore or a homewrecker? Nice assumption, but I'm not one of those. All I'm saying is that it's naive to think that you can confess anything publicly and expect people to be "nice" about it. Maybe you shouldn't feel so safe confessing that you are breaking up families. Maybe you should wake up and realize that it's not a cool thing to do. And YES there are better ways than calling somebody a whore, which I don't do. Believe me, I've made my share of mistakes, and I know that some of them were pretty shitty, and I deal with it. And if I confessed some of them here, I would expect to be taken to task for them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-85439668038794165672007-01-16T10:52:00.000-05:002007-01-16T10:52:00.000-05:00For 9:07pm -
So you don't like what she says you...For 9:07pm - <br /><br />So you don't like what she says you're going to bash her on a site that allows such confessions to be posted? Are you kidding me?! LOL. Maybe you should have tried an approach that didn't include "whore" or "slut" or "homewrecker". Or is maturity too novel of an idea for you?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-55155385768353077742007-01-16T09:53:00.000-05:002007-01-16T09:53:00.000-05:00I rarely read the comments here and have never pos...I rarely read the comments here and have never posted, but I feel compelled to here.<br /><br />I DO NOT condone cheating. If these women sleeping with married men know he's married, they should also know they're causing pain. I realize that life is complicated and if one person in a relationship has resorted to cheating, then the relationship is in trouble (unless it's an open relationship but that's not really cheating then) but there's no reason for an outside party to help it die. Women who do this need to realize that they are hurting people.<br /><br />Women who call these women names also need to realize that they're hurting people. It may not be to the same degree, but either way, pain is caused. <br /><br />And there's really no reason to cause another human pain.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-11747044882707390422007-01-16T01:59:00.000-05:002007-01-16T01:59:00.000-05:00bravo.
i stopped coming here for a while because ...bravo.<br /><br />i stopped coming here for a while because it seemed to drift from the sort of community i felt you were trying to create. thank you for bringing it back home. <br /><br />we don't need to step on each other to stand up taller. we can do that side by side.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-18817496778282553732007-01-15T21:25:00.000-05:002007-01-15T21:25:00.000-05:00I think that people can express their disapproval ...I think that people can express their disapproval in more adult ways than resorting to name calling. Calling people names may be some sort of free expression but nothing good can possibly come of it, so why even lower yourself to that leve. The name caller looks just as much like a loser as the one being called the name.<br /><br />I had a 6th grade teacher tell us that you can san anything to anyone. If you want your point to actually get listened to and have your point considered depends more on HOW you say it, not what you say.<br /><br />And, I've been on the recieving end too folks, but I still won't stoop to calling that other woman a whore. I just won't, she's not the only one to blame.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-32965278159054600542007-01-15T21:07:00.000-05:002007-01-15T21:07:00.000-05:00I hardly think husbands are blameless, I just thin...I hardly think husbands are blameless, I just think that if women were to actually work together as opposed to constant competition we could rule the world. :) And not sleeping with somebody else's husband is a pretty good start...<br /><br />As far as "if you don't have anything nice to say blah blah blah", sorry. Part of the problem with our culture today is that people don't feel like they have to take responsibility for their actions. If a woman (or man in that situation) is going to proclaim her indiscretion for all the world to see, she's gotta realize that people aren't going to like what she says. It's called consequences. Novel, I know.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-57060914123423490902007-01-15T19:11:00.000-05:002007-01-15T19:11:00.000-05:006:09...
You read my mind! We do not have to cens...6:09...<br /><br />You read my mind! We do not have to censor ourselves here (as some people have expressed) rather I think we need to be grown up here. You can relay your disgust without being awful to someone. As many have said here, you can't assume you know the whole story from one little post. Unless you know the person, we are not here to judge. Even if you do know the person, you may not know the WHOLE story. I do not condone cheating in anyway but this was a place where people could get stuff off their chests and now it's become a place where women just cackle and call each other names. We don't have to act that way. Be intelligent with your responses instead of sounding like a typical woman that men stereotype.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com