tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post115653854953423485..comments2023-08-25T09:21:25.015-04:00Comments on True Wife Confessions: True Wife Confession Route 66 - Getting our kicksDawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157999870328535122006-09-11T14:37:00.000-04:002006-09-11T14:37:00.000-04:00to #652: You're sweet to say all that, but it's n...to #652: You're sweet to say all that, but it's not through any amazing effort on my part. I just do what comes naturally. It happens to dovetail nicely with what makes you happy and that's just so much the better. I'm glad I am the way I am, but I don't believe it makes me a Rock Star or anything. I'm just this guy, y'know?<BR/><BR/>At least I'm pretty sure it's my wife that posted that. Given the number of responses indicating it could have been them that posted it appears I'm not the only guy like that. Though she did mentioned this site to me over the weekend to remind me to check it out since I haven't been reading it lately.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157814347157521472006-09-09T11:05:00.000-04:002006-09-09T11:05:00.000-04:00#654, you broke my heart. I don't get it either. I...#654, you broke my heart. I don't get it either. I don't get how I can love my husband and think he's sexy despite his gray hair and pot belly; but he can love me but still find someone else sexy. <BR/><BR/>If it's just the way men's and women's brains are wired, it pisses me off at God.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157669429147303662006-09-07T18:50:00.000-04:002006-09-07T18:50:00.000-04:00652 and others with the same comments- We are ALL ...652 and others with the same comments- We are ALL so very fortunate for the husbands we have. I look at my other friends who have failing marriages and just sigh. We are the lucky ones. SO VERY LUCKY. My husband will be home from Iraq in 20 days we were allready close but this has brought us so much closer.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157652987484340472006-09-07T14:16:00.000-04:002006-09-07T14:16:00.000-04:002:04 are you trying to say in a round about way th...2:04 are you trying to say in a round about way that it is your fault he was looking at porn? That you weren't good enough and that's what the problem was? Because I just have to say something sounds really really wrong with that. You feeling bad about yourself or looking a certain way is not an excuse for him to look at porn. Sounds to me that you changed your attitude about it and decided that it was okay for him. And that's great. It's great that you have found a better you and are working things out and trying new things. But I gotta tell ya, I wouldn't change who I was to justify a man looking at porn.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157639057769273412006-09-07T10:24:00.000-04:002006-09-07T10:24:00.000-04:00#652 could have been written about my husband, too...#652 could have been written about my husband, too. <BR/><BR/>#658-Life is too short to waste your time and energy on hating someone or hurting them out of spite. Just leave, and find happiness with someone else.<BR/><BR/>#660-His antidepressants probably have lowered his sex drive. He might still be able to masturbate, but not be able to maintain an erection long enough to have intercourse. Have him ask his Doctor to adjust the dosage, or try a different medication. If you love him, help him. Cheating on him is not the way to go.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157577460601813122006-09-06T17:17:00.000-04:002006-09-06T17:17:00.000-04:00652Ut Oh.. he's a bigamist! I married the same guy...652<BR/><BR/>Ut Oh.. he's a bigamist! I married the same guy:))<BR/><BR/>On the flip side, is yr name Beth?<BR/><BR/>LOLZoemonsterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17877620156823500528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157577381457230482006-09-06T17:16:00.000-04:002006-09-06T17:16:00.000-04:00#652I thank my lucky stars my luck stars every day...#652<BR/><BR/>I thank my lucky stars my luck stars every day that my DH is how you describe yours. Is it wrong to be sad for those who arent as fortunateAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157571753635624922006-09-06T15:42:00.000-04:002006-09-06T15:42:00.000-04:00#651I know exactly how you feel.. My wife is doing...#651<BR/><BR/>I know exactly how you feel.. My wife is doing the exact same thing to me. I feel worthless, degraded, and unloved. It's no wonder the past few years have been so loveless. I really hope you find a way out. You deserve better.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157565874533073732006-09-06T14:04:00.000-04:002006-09-06T14:04:00.000-04:00#654I had a similar problem, but found that it had...#654<BR/><BR/>I had a similar problem, but found that it had more to do with how i felt about myself and my low self esteeem then it did with him viewing it. <BR/>I worked on making myself better and bulking up my confidence and now the situation is better. I believe because I am more willing to try new things and be the one to come to him and start things. He noticed the confidence (that I could only get from within myself)and it was a turn on.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157565244922459942006-09-06T13:54:00.000-04:002006-09-06T13:54:00.000-04:00#658 - Just get out now. Don't waste years of you...#658 - Just get out now. Don't waste years of you life waiting for a chance to have revenge. Start a new life now. Don't wait to find someone who can make you happy. That will feel much better that getting even with the asshole.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157561236224803002006-09-06T12:47:00.000-04:002006-09-06T12:47:00.000-04:00#654: I feel like I wrote that. What is the solut...#654: I feel like I wrote that. What is the solution? He's not gonna stop, he's just gonna hide it better. And even if he does stop, I'll always have it in the back of my mind. Especially when we make love and he closes his eyes for a moment...is he pretending I am that girl from the video? That skinny, gorgeous, blonde bitch? Then I get mad and hold it against him. Porn can ruin a marriage from the inside out.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157560487468446252006-09-06T12:34:00.000-04:002006-09-06T12:34:00.000-04:00#653I know exactly what that is like. I hope we ca...#653<BR/><BR/>I know exactly what that is like. I hope we can find peace with the life we have.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157559782083573672006-09-06T12:23:00.000-04:002006-09-06T12:23:00.000-04:00652, your husband sounds very much like mine. We ...652, your husband sounds very much like mine. We have our arguments, but for the most part, this life we have is bliss. I'm glad to see someone else out there knows the happiness I feel on a daily basis. I too worry that he'll wake up one day and think he can do better than me. But he just tells me no one else can love him like I do.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157558628955468092006-09-06T12:03:00.000-04:002006-09-06T12:03:00.000-04:00#652 I think our husbands were cut from the same c...#652 I think our husbands were cut from the same cloth and I am glad that they were given to women that appreciates them for all their goodness.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157558240267809502006-09-06T11:57:00.000-04:002006-09-06T11:57:00.000-04:00#652--I could have written that same thing word fo...#652--I could have written that same thing word for word. I think women like us are pretty damn lucky to have such WONDERFUL husbands and they aren't recognized enough!!! I'm always afraid he'll find someone better...but he assures me there isn't such a thing!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157555842001052422006-09-06T11:17:00.000-04:002006-09-06T11:17:00.000-04:00#658If you hate him just leave now. Don't put you...#658<BR/><BR/>If you hate him just leave now. Don't put yourself through more hell by marrying him. You deserve better.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157555669452652292006-09-06T11:14:00.000-04:002006-09-06T11:14:00.000-04:00652I'm not your husband. But I wish I was. How w...652<BR/><BR/>I'm not your husband. But I wish I was. How wonderful that you can recognize the value of a husband that does his best to be a good father, husband and provider.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157543381744260312006-09-06T07:49:00.000-04:002006-09-06T07:49:00.000-04:00#654-I agree and know exactly what you mean and fe...#654-<BR/><BR/>I agree and know exactly what you mean and feel.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com