tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post115609578888035378..comments2023-08-25T09:21:25.015-04:00Comments on True Wife Confessions: True Wife Confession 63 Anomalies of WaterDawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157929829518558402006-09-10T19:10:00.000-04:002006-09-10T19:10:00.000-04:00624, 5:11 and 7:08 are imps. I would disregard th...624, 5:11 and 7:08 are imps. I would disregard their anger as it just makes them sound really IGNORANT. I hope when you people come back here and reread your comments you are completely ashamed and disgusted with yourselves. You ARE no better than these confessions with the amount of support you gave her. I know exactly what your mindset is 624. I have been there. Not taking care of yourself and not making yourself look attractive so that you won't have to deal with the advances of other men, especially when you're having marital problems isn't all that laughable. Like I said, I have been there. Despite the fact when you feel that bad about yourself, when you have kids and a house to take care of, and when you are so majorly depressed, things like makeup and exercise and the like are low on the priority list. When there are days you can barely drag yourself out of bed, eating healthy and keeping yourself attractive are the last things on your mind. My husband never cheated, but he was addicted and abusive. When he got better, I got better and our family got better. I hope you get better too! I DO understand.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157757509280836482006-09-08T19:18:00.000-04:002006-09-08T19:18:00.000-04:00Quote: #624: that was one hell of a rant - let's s...Quote: #624: that was one hell of a rant - let's see: you gained weight so you couldnt be tempted into cheating on him.uh-huh...you GO girl. thanks for that good laugh. <BR/><BR/>5:11 PM <BR/><BR/>Well 5:11, lets see (I am the poster of #624) would you rather I just go ahead and cheat on him when I had committed forever to him? Would that be acceptable in your book? I wonder if it would be more acceptable for me to do that because our society as a WHOLE accepts this? I took my vows seriously. I knew we should get divorced but I was also Catholic and I took THAT seriously too. Despite the fact that he took neither of those things seriously. <BR/><BR/>Enjoy your laugh, I'm glad that you are capable of laughter, because to me you just seem insensitive to others plights. <BR/><BR/>Have a nice day.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157749865975485122006-09-08T17:11:00.000-04:002006-09-08T17:11:00.000-04:00#624: that was one hell of a rant - let's see: you...#624: that was one hell of a rant - let's see: you gained weight so you couldnt be tempted into cheating on him.uh-huh...you GO girl. thanks for that good laugh.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157601705098256772006-09-07T00:01:00.000-04:002006-09-07T00:01:00.000-04:00I'm behind you 624. You go girl!I'm behind you 624. You go girl!I'll never tellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16076691784073948166noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157574128493831422006-09-06T16:22:00.000-04:002006-09-06T16:22:00.000-04:00Quote: "am I the only one who read #640 and though...Quote: "am I the only one who read #640 and thought what a load of shite?!?!? I'm sorry she's going through so much pain, I truly am, HOWEVER - you're only fat so other people wouldn't see you & tempt you into cheating?!?! You admit you married him for security, and now you're pissed off that after 10 years he's left you?!?!?!?! It sounds to me that you're just pissed off that you LOWERED yourself to be with him, and he eventually went off with someone else. I have never left a comment on this site where I felt the need to judge someone, and I don't like doing it now, as I am not god, and I am not perfect. But I feel #624 has some SERIOUS self exploration to do. All just my opinion, of course."<BR/><BR/><BR/>To 7:08, I am the poster of 624. Your opinion is your own, but your anger is out of place.<BR/><BR/>My point in all of this confession I made is that despite my OWN choices, I stuck it out. I chose the way I chose and didn't make him suffer for those choices. To this day in the entire 10 years I was with him, I never ONCE cheated on him yet he felt it was ok to repay my fidelity, commitment and consistency with IN-fidelity and pain. <BR/><BR/>I chose my path, but I didn't choose to not get the same commitment back from someone I said forever to. <BR/><BR/>And by the way, thanks for ANY sympathy at all. Boy I really miss the days when people could be supportive of each other. Instead anger is slung about like daggers for what reason? Did you feel better judging me? Because despite your words of "I have never left a comment on this site where I felt the need to judge someone, and I don't like doing it now..." that is precisely what you did.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157483306260792682006-09-05T15:08:00.000-04:002006-09-05T15:08:00.000-04:00#623 - i think that our husbands are long lost twi...#623 - i think that our husbands are long lost twins!!! hang in there. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157417906972866712006-09-04T20:58:00.000-04:002006-09-04T20:58:00.000-04:00#622 - You seem like a truly strong, capable woman...#622 - You seem like a truly strong, capable woman...good luck to you! I hope you will look back in a few years and see how far you've come.<BR/><BR/>May your childhood room be a point of even more strength for you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157413055669743792006-09-04T19:37:00.000-04:002006-09-04T19:37:00.000-04:00come on 7:08, why the anger? What about her story...come on 7:08, why the anger? What about her story do you see in yourself. She certainly doesn't need your judgemental wrath. I'm sure there is much, much, much, much more to her story. Chill Sista!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157412139746421682006-09-04T19:22:00.000-04:002006-09-04T19:22:00.000-04:00um, so ya, if there's a #640 somewhere wondering w...um, so ya, if there's a #640 somewhere wondering wtf I'm talking about, as I said at the bottom, I meant 624. Preemptive apology to #640 ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157411330938494272006-09-04T19:08:00.000-04:002006-09-04T19:08:00.000-04:00am I the only one who read #640 and thought what a...am I the only one who read #640 and thought what a load of shite?!?!? I'm sorry she's going through so much pain, I truly am, HOWEVER - you're only fat so other people wouldn't see you & tempt you into cheating?!?! You admit you married him for security, and now you're pissed off that after 10 years he's left you?!?!?!?! It sounds to me that you're just pissed off that you LOWERED yourself to be with him, and he eventually went off with someone else. I have never left a comment on this site where I felt the need to judge someone, and I don't like doing it now, as I am not god, and I am not perfect. But I feel #624 has some SERIOUS self exploration to do. All just my opinion, of course.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157392404049793532006-09-04T13:53:00.000-04:002006-09-04T13:53:00.000-04:00I'm sorry 622. There seems to be an anon followin...I'm sorry 622. There seems to be an anon following that are not very compassionate. They can't seem to see this sight for what it is. It seems they want this staged and scripted. But we all know that just is not how life is. I hope it all gets better for you. The pendulum can only swing so low before it has to go back up. I'm sure there are many who don't comment that know exactly how you feel. You are smart, you are not worthless and you will succeed. Hey and thanx here for the imho explanation.I'll never tellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16076691784073948166noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157379378231538602006-09-04T10:16:00.000-04:002006-09-04T10:16:00.000-04:00I am #622, and when I wrote my confession, I felt ...I am #622, and when I wrote my confession, I felt free, then I saw the comments. When i was in my marriage I was made to feel like crap casue i was not good enough. So to free myslef i confessed,got stuff off my chest. But according to many people it was not good enough,witty enough,funny enough.You people sound just like my ex husband, and becaseu of that your no better than the subjects of our confessions.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157369928394860722006-09-04T07:38:00.000-04:002006-09-04T07:38:00.000-04:00Lori,IMHO = in my humble opinionIM(ns)HO = in my n...Lori,<BR/><BR/>IMHO = in my humble opinion<BR/>IM(ns)HO = in my not so humble opinionAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157344068985008812006-09-04T00:27:00.000-04:002006-09-04T00:27:00.000-04:00#627 You are beautiful and your house looks great...#627 You are beautiful and your house looks great. Men are dorks sometime. I don't think they realize how exhausting pregnancy can be. Or that you really don't feel like scrubbing the tub when you're not sure you can get back up without assistance.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157339019412128102006-09-03T23:03:00.000-04:002006-09-03T23:03:00.000-04:00You guys, I'm sorry, what does IMHO mean?You guys, I'm sorry, what does IMHO mean?I'll never tellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16076691784073948166noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157329640061057182006-09-03T20:27:00.000-04:002006-09-03T20:27:00.000-04:00Just wanted to say I agree with Lori here. This is...Just wanted to say I agree with Lori here. This is about confessing, whether it be a feeling we have pent up inside of us, or an action we may not want to own up to. IMHO, it's cathartic to read and know I'm not alone, or to post and get some comments to let me i'm not alone. Either way, it's all part of this big reality show called life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157321387820630362006-09-03T18:09:00.000-04:002006-09-03T18:09:00.000-04:00I have to agree with Dawn. Either start your own ...I have to agree with Dawn. Either start your own site and make sure every submission is side splittingly funny- OR send in some amusing confessions of your own. <BR/><BR/>This isn't Must See TV, written by professional comedic writers. Or Desperate Housewives, written by professional drama writers. <BR/><BR/>If you don't like it, start your own website and THEN you'll have complete control over content and what does and doesn't please you.<BR/><BR/>Yeah, it will last about two days before you realize the work involved with running a popular internationally known blog...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157315645336417362006-09-03T16:34:00.000-04:002006-09-03T16:34:00.000-04:00Hi all,I could almost chart the way the confession...Hi all,<BR/><BR/>I could almost chart the way the confessions come in to the moon phases. They certainly have a life of their own and come in heavy...then lighter phases.<BR/><BR/>Really, I just post what you have sent in. Sometimes there is a need for heavy, then the funny comes back. <BR/>(In the time I have tried to write this, I have had to help my husband twice with the #$##@#^^* ice cream maker)<BR/><BR/>So, as this is driven by you all, if you want more wicked and funny confessions, write them and send them in. <BR/><BR/>I can' be the only person in the world who has made up a lie about the organizer in the washing machine then hid it under the car tire to get out of a fight? Right?Dawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157306553809247672006-09-03T14:02:00.000-04:002006-09-03T14:02:00.000-04:00Hey-wait! I am the wife of #623!!! And #626 as w...Hey-wait! I am the wife of #623!!! And #626 as well. Guy must be a polygamist or something...hmmm.<BR/><BR/>As for how 'depressing' these other confessions have become...it is what it is. This is the reality of some of us. I'm more 'petty' in my confessions here, I suppose...but if I had that kind of crap going on, I'd still want to come here and post it. Is it depressing? Sure. But it's life for a lot of women-and if other women can come here and read and think, "Hey, I'm NOT alone", then that's cool with me. SOme of these posts make me want to cry. My man can be a prick sometimes, but deep down, I know he's a loving guy who doesn't mean to be an asshole. <BR/><BR/>As we all know, our nation's healthcare system (or lack thereof) is a disaster. Far too many people are without healthcare plans, and many more are with shitty ones. I have to assme that this site is, for some women, the ONLY form of therapy they can afford. Heck, I can't afford to see a shrink anymore-my insurance plan is shit when it comes to that...and I can't pay for it out of pocket at this point. If women need to come here and dump this stuff to get it out-let them. They're not hurting anyone.<BR/><BR/>If you don't like those long 'depressing' posts, don't read 'em. Skip them...I've done that a few times here and there when I was more in the mood for posts where women fart on men's pillows to get back at them. ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157299836065479452006-09-03T12:10:00.000-04:002006-09-03T12:10:00.000-04:00HEY, wait a Minute. *I* am married to #623. That l...HEY, wait a Minute. *I* am married to #623. That lying bastard; he has other wives. I am turning his name in today. See you on Oprah!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157295745811050782006-09-03T11:02:00.000-04:002006-09-03T11:02:00.000-04:00#623 I think we're married to the same man. I und...#623 I think we're married to the same man. I understand your frustration!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157263112682422422006-09-03T01:58:00.000-04:002006-09-03T01:58:00.000-04:00I don't understand what it is you anons want. The...I don't understand what it is you anons want. These women are confessing their rage and some disgust. Some are confessing their regret or their hatred for the way things have turned out. Some are even confessing fear. Some confess their deep love for their mates. Some confess how wonderful their hubbies are and what great fathers they have turned out to be. What is it specifically that you want from this forum? Are you asking Dawn to pick and choose what she posts? Are you asking her to edit peoples feelings?I'll never tellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16076691784073948166noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157253170352761202006-09-02T23:12:00.000-04:002006-09-02T23:12:00.000-04:00Yah, I agree. Don't come here if you don't like i...Yah, I agree. Don't come here if you don't like it. And if you do come here.....DON'T COMPLAIN!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157253047809960392006-09-02T23:10:00.000-04:002006-09-02T23:10:00.000-04:00Oh jeez, here we go again. Complainers on the loo...Oh jeez, here we go again. Complainers on the loose.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157250604933546992006-09-02T22:30:00.000-04:002006-09-02T22:30:00.000-04:00I agree with the first poster- I hate the long, dr...I agree with the first poster- I hate the long, drawn-out "complaints"(I don't even read them, I skim over then go on to the next) I wish we could get back to the juicy "confessions"! It is called CONFESSION -- not bitch-a-thon. Dawn... help us out here!!!! You're the best, but this blog is turning a weird corner... imho. xoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com