tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post115523442687026505..comments2023-08-25T09:21:25.015-04:00Comments on True Wife Confessions: True Wife Confessions Department 56 ( which creeps me out more than you can know)Dawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comBlogger44125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1157158015078767732006-09-01T20:46:00.000-04:002006-09-01T20:46:00.000-04:00560-hmmmm...so it was an internet thing? honestly,...560-hmmmm...so it was an internet thing? honestly, how did you expect it to end?<BR/><BR/>one in the hand is worth two in the 'net<BR/><BR/>a guy in floridaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156837875186299452006-08-29T03:51:00.000-04:002006-08-29T03:51:00.000-04:00551-hang on it does get better I PROMISE! i was in...551-hang on it does get better I PROMISE! i was in your shoes. i'm down to t-26 days till my husband comes home from iraq it does suck i swear it does but it does get better some days will go by fast as shit some days will drag ass BUT JUST KEEP YOUR CHIN UP! Distance between two hearts is not an obsticle but a reminder of how great true love is.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156728229808444642006-08-27T21:23:00.000-04:002006-08-27T21:23:00.000-04:00No, 12:31, my husband (as far as I know) has never...No, 12:31, my husband (as far as I know) has never cheated on me. He's not the lying scumbag kind. I totally blame both parties for cheating. People make choices in life, and there is really nobody to blame or to congratulate for those choices but themselves. Women who fall for married men are<BR/>asking for trouble, and like I said, are being used for one thing and one thing only; otherwise the guy would be out and about with her, not furtively screwing her in some fleabag motel. There is a real self-respect problem in women who settle for that shit. Deal with it and move on.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156639559237102092006-08-26T20:45:00.000-04:002006-08-26T20:45:00.000-04:007:49 PM THANK YOU! I am SO SICK of the husbands AL...7:49 PM <BR/><BR/>THANK YOU! I am SO SICK of the husbands ALWAYS escaping the blame - for whatever reason women ALWAYS blame the other woman, we always blame each other, and the man gets off relatively scot free. I would LOVE to say "women, we have to stick together, we have to place the blame where it belongs, on the man" - but I know that will never happen. For some reason we always prefer to blame each other. DON'T GET ME WRONG - I am not saying the "other woman" or "other man" deserves NO blame, but as 7:49 said, the person IN the marriage has the duty to his or her spouse. Sure, we'd love for the "other man/woman" to stay away, BUT MORE IMPORTANTLY we'd love for the married person to not stray in the FIRST PLACE. And if he/she DOES, BLAME THEM. THEY are the ones who violated the vows.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156636149160464222006-08-26T19:49:00.000-04:002006-08-26T19:49:00.000-04:00No one is saying the cheated-on spouse deserves th...No one is saying the cheated-on spouse deserves the blame, I don't think. What people are saying is that to blame the other woman (or other man) is to allow the cheating spouse a pass. It's not the other party who is breaking a vow - that other party has no duty to the spouse - the cheating spouse does. Granted, it's not "nice" of the other wo/man, but it's not the other wo/man's responsibility to keep marriage vows made by someone else. Calling the other wo/man a "slut, homewrecker, etc." takes blame off the person who deserves it - the one who cheated.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156632106502257922006-08-26T18:41:00.000-04:002006-08-26T18:41:00.000-04:00Yes Beth, I find it all to be....creepy.Yes Beth, I find it all to be....creepy.Dawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156620181974921042006-08-26T15:23:00.000-04:002006-08-26T15:23:00.000-04:00I don't think everybody is dumping on the woman wh...I don't think everybody is dumping on the woman who had no clue. We are not blaming the very young, naive, stoooopid little girls. It's the homewreckers who know(whether it be now or later) that the man they are pursuing a relationship with is married, has children and a life. The ones that simply are out for "I" and "I" only. It's the ones who can't get over it when they do find out they are married. Aren't you women turned off by a man who would do that to another woman, a woman he says he loves and marries and has children with. What makes him capable of all of a sudden loving you and not loving his wife? Something is very wrong with that. Haven't you ever heard of you lose "em how you get "em? It's the women who lie and cheat and who base their relationships on these morals that we are dumping on. And then these women are pissed when they can't get what they want when it wasn't theirs to begin with. As for the men....Ladies we all know that we are far superior in the common sense department. They are followers and feel the need to be accepted, loved and wanted. They are ignorant, narcissistic, hedonistic and can come up with some sexual excuse for any immoral thing they want to do(i.e. Porn, cheating, strip clubs....etc.) It's very sad when a woman who knows that a man is taken doesn't care and plays it. Even sadder is how fast a man forgets what he has for younger, or prettier, or kinkier, or the hornier. I don't blame the wife that got cheated on and resent the fact that you would have the nerve to. She has every right to want revenge. She has every right to be so angry she can't see straight. Especially if there are children involved. And she has EVERY right to be angry at THE OTHER WOMAN! Don't play this down by blaming the victim, it makes you sound like you are one of those homewreckers.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156617075732678302006-08-26T14:31:00.000-04:002006-08-26T14:31:00.000-04:00so, 12:02, let me guess that you're the wife who f...so, 12:02, let me guess that you're the wife who forgave your scumbag cheating husband and still blames it on the girl who feel for him, and felt for him, and wanted to belive his lines? <BR/><BR/>there is no winner in the situation. but can you honestly blame someone for falling for it? who doesn't want to feel wanted? i just don't think you should be placing all the blame on the woman who feel for it and NOT the man who deceived her.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156608148520662122006-08-26T12:02:00.000-04:002006-08-26T12:02:00.000-04:00Yes, 11:31. It's never your fault. You just keep p...Yes, 11:31. It's never your fault. You just keep playing the victim and you will end up alone every time. <BR/>Have you ever thought that maybe these men truly love their families and wives and are telling you all of this bullshit so they can fuck you? If they really, truly loved YOU, then guess where they would be laying their heads down every night? If they truly loved you, they would be with you, out in public, living a life with you. Face facts, all you idiots who believe the "she doesn't understand me" line of crap; you are second, and you will be the loser of his little game. And you have nobody to blame but yourself.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156606264408955562006-08-26T11:31:00.000-04:002006-08-26T11:31:00.000-04:00560- I know how you feel. I'm in the middle of the...560- I know how you feel. I'm in the middle of the same situation, and I already know how it's going to end. He's going to propose to her because he's safe there. He's comfortable. Apparently, the last three years have meant nothing to him. And I'm just too ambitious, I have too many of my own goals and plans.<BR/><BR/>No matter what side you're on in these situations, it's tough. Don't let anybody tell you you're the one who's wrong. HE'S the one doing wrong.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156568761141403312006-08-26T01:06:00.000-04:002006-08-26T01:06:00.000-04:00555 - with the not teeth brushing - I have been th...555 - with the not teeth brushing - I have been there. It killed my sex life, too. Men, get the picture. Stay in reasonable shape, help with the housework and brush your teeth and you, too, can have a fabulous sex life.SUEB0Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16301963922769609715noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156565486869491152006-08-26T00:11:00.000-04:002006-08-26T00:11:00.000-04:009:47 it is your fault for letting that man back in...9:47 it is your fault for letting that man back into your life. Practice some self control.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156565354829033682006-08-26T00:09:00.000-04:002006-08-26T00:09:00.000-04:009:04 here, no 11:10 i'm reading this blog for ente...9:04 here, no 11:10 i'm reading this blog for entertainment and the likes. I never said I had it all figured out. But like 11:38, I know that I am forever committed to my husband, my children and my marriage and I would never take the happiness of all the people around me and squash it for my own desires. I can confidently say that. Doesn't sound to me like you can and your not happy about that. Like 11:38 there were cheaters in my family growing up and I know it is not worth it. Why does it upset you that there are some women who can say that they absolutely know that they won't do that? My happy marriage isn't something that should upset YOU! Are you the other woman who can't get a man to leave his wife? 11:38 your input was great, so ditto!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156563484463524492006-08-25T23:38:00.000-04:002006-08-25T23:38:00.000-04:00I am a child of a cheating mother. Not in childho...I am a child of a cheating mother. Not in childhood (that I know of), but in very young adulthood. She chose to stay with my stepfather after he begged and refused to simply surrender my then 9 year old brother to her and the other man, whom was also married with children. (It is more complicated than this, but would take far too long to explain.)<BR/><BR/>Even though she stayed, things have never been the same. Not between her and my step dad (THE most forgiving man I know.), but between her and me. The knowledge that she chose her own desires over the wellbeing of everyone in our family still rocks me today, years later, as a married woman. I love her, but I will never view her the same way again. I forgive her, but I will never feel that I can totally trust what she is saying to me again. Because of her actions, myself and the members of my family who know of the affair will forever have to make sure my brother doesn't find out what my mother did. To protect her in the eyes of her child. As if it is our responsibility.<BR/><BR/>Cheating ruins lives. Period. It affects so much more than yourself, and it's beyond narcissistic to think that it does not affect other people. <BR/><BR/>And it is not a statement of perfection to say that you will never cheat. I know I will not, not because of my guiltless living, but because of my choices. Affairs do not just happen. They happen as little lies, glances, and moral slights slowly become acceptable. I am committed that no matter what, I will be wholly committed to my husband. Not because I am perfect, but because I choose to be committed only to him, and not to another man who can fulfill my selfish and insecure desires.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156562635157394382006-08-25T23:23:00.000-04:002006-08-25T23:23:00.000-04:00"Do you think i'll trust a married man ever again?..."Do you think i'll trust a married man ever again?" <BR/><BR/>Um, 560- are married men all you go after? <BR/><BR/>Wives, lock up your husbands.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156561828752670522006-08-25T23:10:00.000-04:002006-08-25T23:10:00.000-04:009:04- Good for you, glad you have it all figured o...9:04- Good for you, glad you have it all figured out. Are you reading this blog because your marriage is so perfect??Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156561533649608182006-08-25T23:05:00.000-04:002006-08-25T23:05:00.000-04:00Hey Dawn,Are you talking about the Christmas (Hall...Hey Dawn,<BR/>Are you talking about the Christmas (Halloween, etc) decoration stuff? Cause that is some creepy shit!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156556841888019952006-08-25T21:47:00.000-04:002006-08-25T21:47:00.000-04:00I would have said the very same thing...until 5 mo...I would have said the very same thing...until 5 months ago when the man I was very much in love with prior to my husband came back into my life.<BR/><BR/>The words aren't so tasty now.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156554299030643122006-08-25T21:04:00.000-04:002006-08-25T21:04:00.000-04:007:40, as a woman confident in my marriage and who ...7:40, as a woman confident in my marriage and who has self respect...I DO KNOW! I would never compromise my life like that. I have self control thank you very much.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156550204908796452006-08-25T19:56:00.000-04:002006-08-25T19:56:00.000-04:00Here, Here! Hard to feel sorry for all these men w...Here, Here! Hard to feel sorry for all these men who were so innocently lured away by these homewreaking whores.<BR/><BR/>What's a penis to do?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156550112271422072006-08-25T19:55:00.000-04:002006-08-25T19:55:00.000-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Dawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156549917023129452006-08-25T19:51:00.000-04:002006-08-25T19:51:00.000-04:00let's all please try to remember that for every ho...let's all please try to remember that for every homewrecking whore, there's an equally guilty sonofabitch who doesn't deserve the wife he's screwing over.<BR/><BR/>i just hate seeing women always blaming each other while the asshole whose dick was getting stroked gets off scott free.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156549224418006982006-08-25T19:40:00.000-04:002006-08-25T19:40:00.000-04:00I have been the "other woman", the slut, whore, ho...I have been the "other woman", the slut, whore, home wrecker. I am married to a great guy and the love of my life is married to someone else. Both of us made the discision to remain with our spouses, children and families. We did the "right" thing. I live with the pain, guilt and unhappiness everyday. Don't be so quick to judge...you just never know.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156545065046390402006-08-25T18:31:00.000-04:002006-08-25T18:31:00.000-04:00I'm sorry you had to go through that (and that I d...I'm sorry you had to go through that (and that I didn't pick up on the sarcasm). I hope you can trust again, one day. I can see how it would be considered more destructive. Despite people's very strong opinions on the matter, it isn't a mistake I care to repeat. And thank you, kat, for your kind words -560Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156544681642025742006-08-25T18:24:00.000-04:002006-08-25T18:24:00.000-04:00I’m 5:03. It was a sarcastic remark.When I found ...I’m 5:03. It was a sarcastic remark.<BR/><BR/>When I found out about the emotional affair I was accused of snooping and invasion of privacy. I was told that snooping was an unforgivable violation of trust. I was accused of being the crazy one. What’s worse is that I started to believe I was crazy and paranoid for blaming my divorce on a “friendship.”<BR/><BR/>I was also told that it wasn’t cheating because they didn’t do anything physical until after we separated. I know the emotional affair caused the divorce. I don’t think I will ever be capable of a trusting relationship again. <BR/><BR/>I think it’s actually more destructive than a one time only one night stand.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com