tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post115436424107056269..comments2023-08-25T09:21:25.015-04:00Comments on True Wife Confessions: True Wife Confessions 49 strings on a harpDawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1156103718472645532006-08-20T15:55:00.000-04:002006-08-20T15:55:00.000-04:00Confession #483same exact thing happened to my aun...Confession #483<BR/><BR/>same exact thing happened to my aunt & her husband - she woke up in the middle of the night to find him smashing his head over & over into the kitchen cupboards. He had to be hospitalized for a short time, then they were able to find the right meds for him, and he's been fine ever since - ups & downs, but that's normal. Oh, the diagnosis was manic depression/bi-polar - I'm sure your huby has been diagnosed already, but just in case.<BR/><BR/>BTW - I too have very serious "head issues" & take meds. IT IS A CONSTANT STRUGGLE - and the feelings you describe? TOTALLY understandable & normal. Don't beat yourself up. I know my mom has had a HELL of a time with me over the years, and I'm sure she felt the same way you did. You just do the best you can & feel how you feel - as long as you don't belittle him & make him think his problems aren't real (been there!) nothing you feel is "wrong". Good luck, I mean it!jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03644929017494459806noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1155903916499662272006-08-18T08:25:00.000-04:002006-08-18T08:25:00.000-04:00#483... please seek some help, for yourself.. coun...#483... please seek some help, for yourself.. counselling or a support group...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1155884631428395402006-08-18T03:03:00.000-04:002006-08-18T03:03:00.000-04:00#483....Wow...been there, done that. ((HUGS)) Tha...#483....Wow...been there, done that. ((HUGS)) That's some tough shit to go through.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05423544545388492094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1155851128110624642006-08-17T17:45:00.000-04:002006-08-17T17:45:00.000-04:00http://innocent-sarcasm.blogspot.comhttp://innocent-sarcasm.blogspot.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1155847473497810752006-08-17T16:44:00.000-04:002006-08-17T16:44:00.000-04:00That kinda sucks 487. Why would you compromise yo...That kinda sucks 487. Why would you compromise yourself like that? By what you say we can assume you married an alien for the sole purpose of helping him to gain citizenship in this country. Hmmmmmm, let's see....THAT SUCKS!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1155838492163460092006-08-17T14:14:00.000-04:002006-08-17T14:14:00.000-04:00#490 - great story with a great ending.#490 - great story with a great ending.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1155837869785556162006-08-17T14:04:00.000-04:002006-08-17T14:04:00.000-04:0047 strings on a full-sized pedal harp. Sorry to n...47 strings on a full-sized pedal harp. Sorry to nitpick, but I just couldn't let that go.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1155834204536618842006-08-17T13:03:00.000-04:002006-08-17T13:03:00.000-04:00#490 - just remember this: we're lucky that we don...#490 - just remember this: we're lucky that we don't always get what we deserve. You are a lucky, lucky girl. He sounds like an amazing man and I am happy that you gave him a second chance and that he gave you one as well. Regardless of how you acted back then, you deserve him. Believe that with all your heart.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1155831979534265682006-08-17T12:26:00.000-04:002006-08-17T12:26:00.000-04:00#490, that is such a great story :) I'm glad he co...#490, that is such a great story :) I'm glad he convinced you to change your mind.Jaelithehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12081888212421953409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1155828783512658732006-08-17T11:33:00.000-04:002006-08-17T11:33:00.000-04:00#490 - That is sooo sweet! I did start to tear up...#490 - That is sooo sweet! I did start to tear up. I'm glad you realized what a great guy you have, and I hope you can tell him how you feel about him.<BR/><BR/>{hugs}thegoddessannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01224741356277316945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1155825536546032742006-08-17T10:38:00.000-04:002006-08-17T10:38:00.000-04:00#483 – I've been on both sides of that equation. T...#483 – I've been on both sides of that equation. Try not to beat yourself up for feeling that way; I think it's probably normal.<BR/><BR/>#490 – Glad your story had a happy ending.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1155824963791624422006-08-17T10:29:00.000-04:002006-08-17T10:29:00.000-04:00Awww #490 is so sweet it nearly made me cry.It's s...Awww #490 is so sweet it nearly made me cry.<BR/>It's so nice that people can have turnabouts like that, that totally change their perspective and make them appreciate the true good things in life.Donnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17450362098941390472noreply@blogger.com