tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post115194821324617848..comments2023-08-25T09:21:25.015-04:00Comments on True Wife Confessions: True Wife Confessions (Sexy and) 17Dawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12920042208198309201noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-69502481175567591492011-04-17T23:06:12.296-04:002011-04-17T23:06:12.296-04:00I came here because I am dealing with issues in my...I came here because I am dealing with issues in my marriage. My husband told me years ago that he appreciated the wifely qualities in me but that he did not have any passion for me. This resulted in him having several emmotional affairs. He now says that it is all in the past and he is in love with me. We have 3 kids, he is a wonderful father and a great person.I feel like I have been cheated out of the chance to have true love, I long to know what it feels like to have a man who loves me erotically and not be with me simply because he wants to be true to his vows.This is leading me to be in a situation like #170.elenanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-21140283941533574602010-12-07T11:31:09.022-05:002010-12-07T11:31:09.022-05:00I have been married for 22 years. and I commend an...I have been married for 22 years. and I commend anyone that is willing to take the rough road, life is not easy and some times you have to suck it up and deal. My wife had an affair. Let me back up . I married my wife because she got preagant at 17 and I was raised up to do the right thing. 5 years latter I found out she had an affair that went on for most of a year during year 3 of the marriage.But by this time we had 3 kids , so for the sake of my kids I swallowed my pride and stayed. Now we have been married for 22 years, and yes it still hurts and I really dont love her any more but she will never know that. I may not be the most happest person in the world but at the end of the day when I'm gone I can look down from the heavens and say I DID MY BEST. I have three happy well rounded kids and a happy wife that never knew that I could not forgive her. That is my burden to carey. <br />P.S. this is the first time to ever tell this story to anyone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-58266085867542771282008-01-31T07:41:00.000-05:002008-01-31T07:41:00.000-05:00And this is why i will never get married... why pu...And this is why i will never get married... why put your trust in someone when 90% of the time your trust gets broken? some of these "confessions" really made me sad. bachelor for life!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-57257637775975762702007-01-08T13:33:00.000-05:002007-01-08T13:33:00.000-05:00#170. Love your confession. I am a husband but I...#170. Love your confession. I am a husband but I'm going through exactly the same as you...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1158054331541793802006-09-12T05:45:00.000-04:002006-09-12T05:45:00.000-04:00Amen to 170. It's comforting to know I'm not the ...Amen to 170. It's comforting to know I'm not the only one.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1152835261811593942006-07-13T20:01:00.000-04:002006-07-13T20:01:00.000-04:00This is the best blog I've read in a LONG TIME! (...This is the best blog I've read in a LONG TIME! (And I read blogs a lot) I laughed, cried, and gasped!!! Thank you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1152806992900290352006-07-13T12:09:00.000-04:002006-07-13T12:09:00.000-04:00170...Sometimes you just have to wait for the timi...170...Sometimes you just have to wait for the timing to be better...at least <BR/>that's where I am right now. <BR/><BR/>I love my husband, but the other man - the one I watch and he watches me and we both know that we missed our chance? xwnpmg<BR/><BR/>I'm pretty sure the right time will come someday.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1152792065051162512006-07-13T08:01:00.000-04:002006-07-13T08:01:00.000-04:00Good lord # 170...been there. Sometimes the forbi...Good lord # 170...been there. Sometimes the forbidden fruit is so much sweeter when you can't taste it, then again sometimes when you finally give in, it it sweeter then you ever imagined. Not that you asked for my opinion, but I believe if you are looking at someone else for things your husband doesn't give you (especially something so deep as your soul), then you shouldn't be with your husband. Being with the right person means that he has all that you need and want to keep you with him. I'm no fool - I know you can be attracted to someone else or even have a harmless flirtation, but if it ever goes further than that, you need to seriously rethink the relationship you're in, whether you've been together for a year or thirty - you deserve to have complete peace and happiness with the person you love!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1152746034284091752006-07-12T19:13:00.000-04:002006-07-12T19:13:00.000-04:00I do think that 170 is also beautiful. It's raw an...I do think that 170 is also beautiful. It's raw and truthful. Life sucks sometimes and shithappens. This woman can't help that she feels this way. <BR/><BR/>In response to all three anonymous':<BR/>I am sure she isn't telling her husband because she knows it would hurt him. I think that was obvious. <BR/><BR/>2. In terms of the emotional cheating, it seems like she is fighting pretty hard to not let that happen. I think it's honorable that she is staying honorable to her vows. Something not done today. It's easy to not have a physical affair, but a lot harder to not have an emotional one. I think she def. should be honored for trying to do her best to stay in love with her husband. <BR/><BR/>3. I don't think it's out of pity because she tells him she loves him and that he is her hero. <BR/><BR/>This just hits close to home for me and I feel storingly about it. My husband had an affair similar to this and if he had said the things to me that this woman is saying to her husband it would have helped. Knowing he was trying hard to love me through some pain with the hopes that the other love would resolve maybe might have helped me heal. We worked through it and went to a year of counseling. the hurt I experienced had a lot to do with him not even trying to remember what we promised each other on our wedding day. He asked why I wanted to stay with him despite him not being in love with me that way anymore. I made a promise. I keep my promises. We worked through it and he says now he can't believe he almost lost me. <BR/><BR/>I commend her for fighting.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1152741359098221792006-07-12T17:55:00.000-04:002006-07-12T17:55:00.000-04:00Okay, I made the 5:12pm comment and have something...Okay, I made the 5:12pm comment and have something else to say. Sounds like she is with him out of pity. Would he want her pity love if he knew how she really felt? If the roles where reversed and a man was saying these things about his wife, he'd be villified.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1152741017841490842006-07-12T17:50:00.000-04:002006-07-12T17:50:00.000-04:00Maybe I'm reading 170 wrong since people seem to f...Maybe I'm reading 170 wrong since people seem to find it so "touching" and "beautiful." I find it incredibly sad. No, she's not cheating physically, but she is definitely doing so emotionally. I'm not trying to fault her, but she's exalted for being so strong. Is she really that strong?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1152738735308916332006-07-12T17:12:00.000-04:002006-07-12T17:12:00.000-04:00#170 - what could you say if your husband suspecte...#170 - what could you say if your husband suspected that that was what was bothering you? because you still love him in that way, you don't want to hurt him..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1152699600818595502006-07-12T06:20:00.000-04:002006-07-12T06:20:00.000-04:00You know, I'm getting both entertainment AND educa...You know, I'm getting both entertainment AND education from this blog! I'm trying to apply what I'm learning, and it's working! (I even posted about it!)<BR/><BR/>Thanks!Caroliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11637418089860927715noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1152670594409075752006-07-11T22:16:00.000-04:002006-07-11T22:16:00.000-04:00I could have written 170. Although I often wonder ...I could have written 170. Although I often wonder if I would be as strong as her. If given the chance I would remain as faithful to my husband who I do love dearly. I have loved him for 10 years. Ive been with my husband 7 of them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1152661623647611232006-07-11T19:47:00.000-04:002006-07-11T19:47:00.000-04:00164 & 165 had me ROLLIN!!!! LOL!!164 & 165 had me ROLLIN!!!! LOL!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1152654973165437862006-07-11T17:56:00.000-04:002006-07-11T17:56:00.000-04:00#170- I agree totally#170- I agree totallyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1152653405004011912006-07-11T17:30:00.000-04:002006-07-11T17:30:00.000-04:00#170 said so many things that I am thinking and fe...#170 said so many things that I am thinking and feeling. What a comfort to know that I'm not the only one with these issues. Of course, many of the anger-filled remarks are equally as eerily relatable to my experience.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1152652649511117432006-07-11T17:17:00.000-04:002006-07-11T17:17:00.000-04:00#170 nearly made me cry. You're not the only one, ...#170 nearly made me cry. You're not the only one, honey!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1152650653398179212006-07-11T16:44:00.000-04:002006-07-11T16:44:00.000-04:00#170-I wish I had her strength and selflessness.#170-I wish I had her strength and selflessness.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1152646633887791562006-07-11T15:37:00.000-04:002006-07-11T15:37:00.000-04:00#170 is stunning. To have such love and still be ...#170 is stunning. To have such love and still be so conflicted. Two different kind of loves. Wow. Although I'm a little sad for her that both aren't all rolled up into one person so her heart could rest easy and not have to fight.Andreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10612468442701491963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1152646535483838082006-07-11T15:35:00.000-04:002006-07-11T15:35:00.000-04:00#170 is amazing. Could almost have been written b...#170 is amazing. Could almost have been written by me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1152645878693195972006-07-11T15:24:00.000-04:002006-07-11T15:24:00.000-04:00#170: Wow. That's really all I can say. Just wo...#170: Wow. That's really all I can say. Just wow.Reizahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07411331845012114174noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1152641035238122682006-07-11T14:03:00.000-04:002006-07-11T14:03:00.000-04:00Confession 170 is absolutely beautiful. After all ...Confession 170 is absolutely beautiful. After all the confessions from wives who despise their husbands' behavior, it's nice to read one from one who calls her husband her hero. How lucky for her to have found love twice when some people never find it at all.FunnyGal KAThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10827578909140878399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29562711.post-1152630740664196302006-07-11T11:12:00.000-04:002006-07-11T11:12:00.000-04:00Damn these things are addicting to read!Damn these things are addicting to read!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com